What do you mean 'if you know what you're doing'? It only takes me from 30 seconds-1 minute and a half to ejaculate and I certainly want to increase that to 5 minutes.

i'm 18
with somebody during sex I usually last between 2 and a half minutes - 8 minutes XD

erm by myself average would be 12.5 minutes but quite often i get up to half an hour

When I was 15 I had the problem of ejaculating very quickly. For those of you that want to increase your time, here is an easy method that I used that works great.

masturbate until you have an erection, then stop for about 15-30 sec. then masturbate until you are about to ejaculate, try to find the point at which you can stop before you actually do. Masterbate to the ejaculation point, then stop for about 15-30 sec. then repeat the process, you wont be able to do it many times to start with, but after awhile it will start to work. Try to get to about 6-8 cycles through.

I used to ejaculate in about 3-5 min, after doing this for about 4 weeks I was able to go 20-30 min.

One of the things you have to remember when masturbating is that it wont be exactly that long when you actually have sex. When you masturbate you know what will stimulate you more, and also you are rubbing the foreskin faster then you would in sex. So the time that you will have with a women will be different then how long you masturbate, it will generally be 2-4 times longer.

The average man takes about 5 min. to masturbate and about 15 min. during sex, so if you are taking 20-40 min. like some of you are saying. Then you may have a problem, or you are trying to sound good.

Note: This method is only one of many that you can try, it is not for everyone and may not work for certain people.

I'm a guy in his late twenties..

pasquale_32 thats awes.. and after weeks, i'd shoot within a min ;]

but when I jack-off I really try to make it last longer because the sensations are good and I don't want them to end.. If i feel I am getting close I will slow down (its good practice for sex) - but if I aint got much time i'll have a quick sesh and get off quick..

Listen. I'm 14. I started jackin off a couple weeks ago. So far I have had 5 orgasims. The shortest time for me has been 30 mins. I don't know if that is normal. I watch porn while doing it. Is there something wrong?

20 minutes isn't really something to be ashamed of. When I'm getting a lil frisky with my girl sometimes I don't even ejaculate and sometimes that's even a turn-on to her. But the thing is the longer you do last, the wilder it can be in bed. But she may want you to ejaculate sometime during it all.

well how do you learn to control it? like when im masturbating it takes me 1-3 minutes and once i reach the beginning of the great feeling:P i cannot control it unless i stop for five second then keep going... is this normal? if not how can i train myself to go for like 30-1 hour cuz im sure my girl friend would love that one day

well the problem with me lasting that long is that... im trying to ejaculate and im just forcing ti and im stressed and worried about other stuff.... atleast thats what im told.

after my 4th time masterbating a day i can usually get it up to about 3 mins. but by then my penis is lathered in tones of petrolium jelly and my spit so it feels like a greesed up chicken bone.