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How long should a 15 year old take to masterbate on average, I take I think about 3 or 4 mins, is that normall ???
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First Helper Tony Williams
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replied November 2nd, 2005
Are you male?

It takes your 3/4 mins to cum? I don't think so, try going for 20+ minutes.

It might hurt after a while, which is why vaseline, kj jelly and your own spit (ugh) come in handy.
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replied November 5th, 2011
cum
do most people have that "awe awe awe" moment alot of time before cumming?
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replied June 28th, 2014
Experienced User
I think we all have that 'awe' moment just before cumming, I certainly do, I always hope that no person hears me as ejaculating the massive amount of semen I always have makes me awe and gasp for the sheer pleasure it gives me
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replied March 28th, 2012
It takes me an hour+ sometimes
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replied June 28th, 2014
Experienced User
Same with me as well, not all the sessions I have with my penis last a hour+, but it gives me intense pleasure to last that time, I just slowly masturbate and after a hour or a bit longer I will ejaculate a amazing amount of semen, I do notice if I do it in a minute or so which is not often, not so much semen will come out.
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replied March 30th, 2012
Well I am only 13? How long for me
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replied June 28th, 2014
Experienced User
When I was 14, I did not worry too much on how long it took to cum until I learned to hold it back, gradually it became normalfor me to have long sessions. Do it slowly, think sex, I could go on for a hour before I came, after I married, I had long sessions with my penis fully in my wife and also lasting for up to a hour, she also loved the long sex sessions we had.
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replied June 29th, 2014
Experienced User
With a little practice you can prolong the time and PLEASURE you get from masturbating, even use a clock to time yourself, increasing gradually every time getting a little longer, try it, who knows you might be able to go as long as a hour before ejaculating like I have many a time, it does take a little practice, but what immence pleasure you get in that hour
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replied November 2nd, 2005
I am a male, does it really take 20 mins for an average male of my age to cum when masterbating
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replied June 28th, 2014
Experienced User
Masturbating, not masterbating can last for up to 20 minutes for the average guy, sometimes its longer than that, sometimes shorter, it just depends in the mood you are in
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replied November 2nd, 2005
Active User, very eHealthy
It could take minutes it could take upwards of an hour depending on your state of mind and how much you are stimulating yourself.
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replied November 2nd, 2005
Hi, 20 mins! Thats just too long. It usually never takes more than 5 mins for me. By the way, im 15 too.
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replied June 28th, 2014
Experienced User
Don't worry about that 'allenn812' work at it, the longer you last, the more cum will come out at the end, do it slowly, think sex, even try and time yourself and make each session a little longer each time, that way you can add a 0 to the 5 you say it takes you, good luck. LOL I notice this post was in 2005, that's 9 years ago, you are probably married now or at least take longer to masturbate than 5 minutes, so I hope other 14 and 15 year olds take notice of the above
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replied November 3rd, 2005
I know, 20 mins or up too an hour sounds really far fetched, it takes me about 5 mins maybe, does this mean that I premature ejactulate ???
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replied June 29th, 2014
Experienced User
Premature ejaculation really only applies when couples are having sex, not when a guy is masturbating. A man can cum within seconds of his penis going erect when masturbating but the term premature only applies when he cums within seconds of his penis entering his wives vagina when they both want intercourse to last much longer than that.
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replied November 3rd, 2005
Active User, very eHealthy
Not neccessarily. Premature ejaculation basically means like under 30 seconds for the most part and often refers to people who can't control their ability to orgasm. As much as an hour seems to be far fetched, it is 100% possible if you know what you're doing!
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replied June 29th, 2014
Experienced User
Yes cd that last sentence is correct, with a little practice you can like I do make it last up to a hour, after some practice and experience I do know what I am doing, I can assure you it is a very 100% pleasurable hour to experience.
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replied November 13th, 2005
Are u masturbating after looking at porn? If so thats fine I think, in a real situation ull be much less turned on when u start so ull last longer
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replied June 29th, 2014
Experienced User
I used to watch porn for a short while when I was doing it, but I just close my eyes and think sex, that way it lasts longer and porn stars are only acting
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replied July 26th, 2006
Hey im 15 and I usually cant or practically never ejaculate wen im looking at porn mags. I usually have to watch vids. Vids just get me more turned on. Wen im [really] in the zone it only takes me 3-5 mins.
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replied July 26th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
My boyfriend can orgasm after a few minutes as well. Heck, i'm female, and i can orgasm in five minutes, with no porn! :p
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replied June 29th, 2014
Experienced User
Better to do it NOT watching porn, have you and your boyfriend ever tried to see how many times each of you can orgasm in say 3 hours, I know who the winner would be, you.
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replied July 27th, 2006
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How Long
Who would want to masturbate for that long? Whats the point of masturbating for an hour? Youre not impressing anyone, so whats the point of holding out for so long?
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replied June 28th, 2014
Experienced User
No harm in masturbating slowly for a hour, when I was a teenager we had competitions on how long a guy could withhold his penis from ejaculating, the winner was always me as I learned how to hold back the semen. This continued after I was married, I could leave my penis in my wives vagina for ages once I entered, she came many times sometimes as often as 4 or 5, but I only ejaculated at the end after I held back for a hour.
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replied July 27th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
I am not really sure myself. I know that in reference to men, the ability to masturbate for a long time could mean they can last longer during sex. For females, it is the unfortunate product of our anatomy that many women can barely orgasm during masturbation at all, no matter how long they go at it! So a male being able to last longer has a better chance of getting his female partner to orgasm as well.

As for myself, i'm very lucky that I can get myself "off" in five minutes. It takes my boyfriend longer to do it for me, but that's just because I know how to touch myself better.
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replied July 30th, 2006
eiri wrote:
i am not really sure myself. I know that in reference to men, the ability to masturbate for a long time could mean they can last longer during sex. For females, it is the unfortunate product of our anatomy that many women can barely orgasm during masturbation at all, no matter how long they go at it! So a male being able to last longer has a better chance of getting his female partner to orgasm as well.


As for myself, i'm very lucky that I can get myself "off" in five minutes. It takes my boyfriend longer to do it for me, but that's just because I know how to touch myself better.

i usually masterbate for like an hour I must be good or something?
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replied July 30th, 2006
Experienced User
I'm 22 and it takes me 45 seconds (depending on how fast I go) to 2 minutes. That alittle too quick? If I go slow it takes me a few mins, if I go super fast it goes by really fast. I'm also one of those people who get horney from anything...Can be the wind, bumps, doing nothing, checking out women (then again most males have this) though it's slowed down alot, before I could not controll it and was horney many many times a day when I was younger.
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replied July 31st, 2006
Especially eHealthy
You sound perfectly healthy to me :)
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replied July 31st, 2006
Just a quick question?

Does it take longer for a circumsized guy compared to an uncircumsized guy
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replied November 5th, 2011
Hi M.D., This is something that I have never discussed with another guy, mainly because I've never been w/an u.c. I am cut and in my hey-dey jerked several times a day. Even while in college. I was successful because it never took me more than 2 minutes(max). I don't think I was flacid once during puberty.
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replied July 31st, 2006
Especially eHealthy
It can depend on the guy. I have heard that uncircumsized men have a lot more sensation in the foreskin; if that is true then it would seem logical that it would take less time for them to masturbate. However, I have also heard that the foreskin allows a guy to know better when he's just about to orgasm, and thus control it better.
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replied August 9th, 2006
To all you younger guys out there. Taking only 5 minutes or less to orgasm is not somehting you'll want to be bragging about when youre with a lover. The average woman takes somethign like 20 to 40 minutes to reach her climax/orgasm. Granted, masturbation is not having sex, so why should you invest the time?
1: because it feels great.
2: practice makes perfect. Take some time to learn how you react to your (or other's) touch. You may find some more enjoable ways to masturbate.
3: because later in life you're going to wish you could go one hour, even more, before finally getting off with your partner.
4: you're training yourself to reach your peak far to early. Average for man is anywhere from 5-15 minutes.

Some say that premature ejaculation is ejactulating before you want to. But some can't controll it at all and it's a problem. And here's some food for thought. Ejaculation and orgasm are two different processes. They just happen to happen at the same time. You can separate the two. What man wouldn't love to orgasm without cumming? Because without ejaculating, you keep your erection and can come to orgasm again. It takes practice and hard work to do this...Something you'll not acheive if you blow your load in under 60 seconds every time.
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replied May 13th, 2007
Holy Crap
thats messed, im 16, do it the same as everybody I know and the shortest ive EVER taken was 20 mins (that was when I hadent done it for weeks)
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replied June 25th, 2007
Re: Holy Crap
pasquale_32 wrote:
thats messed, im 16, do it the same as everybody I know and the shortest ive EVER taken was 20 mins (that was when I hadent done it for weeks)


yah well im 15 and i take 20 minutes because well the longer you take the better it will be for you
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