Masterbation, How Long ?

Are you male?

It takes your 3/4 mins to cum? I don't think so, try going for 20+ minutes.

It might hurt after a while, which is why vaseline, kj jelly and your own spit (ugh) come in handy.

I am a male, does it really take 20 mins for an average male of my age to cum when masterbating

It could take minutes it could take upwards of an hour depending on your state of mind and how much you are stimulating yourself.

Hi, 20 mins! Thats just too long. It usually never takes more than 5 mins for me. By the way, im 15 too.

I know, 20 mins or up too an hour sounds really far fetched, it takes me about 5 mins maybe, does this mean that I premature ejactulate ???

Not neccessarily. Premature ejaculation basically means like under 30 seconds for the most part and often refers to people who can't control their ability to orgasm. As much as an hour seems to be far fetched, it is 100% possible if you know what you're doing!

Are u masturbating after looking at porn? If so thats fine I think, in a real situation ull be much less turned on when u start so ull last longer

Hey im 15 and I usually cant or practically never ejaculate wen im looking at porn mags. I usually have to watch vids. Vids just get me more turned on. Wen im [really] in the zone it only takes me 3-5 mins.

My boyfriend can orgasm after a few minutes as well. Heck, i'm female, and i can orgasm in five minutes, with no porn! :p

Who would want to masturbate for that long? Whats the point of masturbating for an hour? Youre not impressing anyone, so whats the point of holding out for so long?

I am not really sure myself. I know that in reference to men, the ability to masturbate for a long time could mean they can last longer during sex. For females, it is the unfortunate product of our anatomy that many women can barely orgasm during masturbation at all, no matter how long they go at it! So a male being able to last longer has a better chance of getting his female partner to orgasm as well.

As for myself, i'm very lucky that I can get myself "off" in five minutes. It takes my boyfriend longer to do it for me, but that's just because I know how to touch myself better.

I'm 22 and it takes me 45 seconds (depending on how fast I go) to 2 minutes. That alittle too quick? If I go slow it takes me a few mins, if I go super fast it goes by really fast. I'm also one of those people who get horney from anything...Can be the wind, bumps, doing nothing, checking out women (then again most males have this) though it's slowed down alot, before I could not controll it and was horney many many times a day when I was younger.

You sound perfectly healthy to me :)

Just a quick question?

Does it take longer for a circumsized guy compared to an uncircumsized guy

It can depend on the guy. I have heard that uncircumsized men have a lot more sensation in the foreskin; if that is true then it would seem logical that it would take less time for them to masturbate. However, I have also heard that the foreskin allows a guy to know better when he's just about to orgasm, and thus control it better.

To all you younger guys out there. Taking only 5 minutes or less to orgasm is not somehting you'll want to be bragging about when youre with a lover. The average woman takes somethign like 20 to 40 minutes to reach her climax/orgasm. Granted, masturbation is not having sex, so why should you invest the time?
1: because it feels great.
2: practice makes perfect. Take some time to learn how you react to your (or other's) touch. You may find some more enjoable ways to masturbate.
3: because later in life you're going to wish you could go one hour, even more, before finally getting off with your partner.
4: you're training yourself to reach your peak far to early. Average for man is anywhere from 5-15 minutes.

Some say that premature ejaculation is ejactulating before you want to. But some can't controll it at all and it's a problem. And here's some food for thought. Ejaculation and orgasm are two different processes. They just happen to happen at the same time. You can separate the two. What man wouldn't love to orgasm without cumming? Because without ejaculating, you keep your erection and can come to orgasm again. It takes practice and hard work to do this...Something you'll not acheive if you blow your load in under 60 seconds every time.

thats messed, im 16, do it the same as everybody I know and the shortest ive EVER taken was 20 mins (that was when I hadent done it for weeks)