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00fresh
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Chandler, Arizona
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Miscarriage
Posted: 11-01-05 22:03pm
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This probably isnt the right formn to come
to because everyone is happily pregnant,..
But I really need to find a support group
to talk to.. I need to talk to ppl that
are going through what im going through..
Im so lost.
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womenshealthprovider
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2005 Posts: 2
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Posted: 11-01-05 22:09pm
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I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my
first baby when I was almost 13 weeks
along. I totally know how hard it is. I
was in shock and misbelief at first. I
cried for 3 days straight. I was numb
after that and then angry. Why did this
happen to me? I still don't know and will
never know. I did go on to have 2
wonderful boys after that, so there is
hope. My heart has healed since then. I
hope the same for you.
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michelle1981
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Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 7236 Location: Toronto, Canada
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Posted: 11-01-05 22:51pm
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| womenshealthprovider
wrote: | | i am so sorry for your loss.
I lost my first baby when I was almost
13 weeks along. I totally know how hard
it is. I was in shock and misbelief at
first. I cried for 3 days straight. I
was numb after that and then angry. Why
did this happen to me? I still don't
know and will never know. I did go on to
have 2 wonderful boys after that, so there
is hope. My heart has healed since then.
I hope the same for
you. |
like you I was 13 weeks along when the u/s
showed fetal demise....I was devastated!
That was just in june.
00fresh, keep your head up...Things get
better.
We're all here for you if you need us :)
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LUV4KYLE2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 107 Location: PA
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:01am
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Did you start bleeding at 13 weeks when
you had ur miscarried?
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:33am
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| luv4kyle2007
wrote: | | did you start bleeding at 13
weeks when you had ur
miscarried? |
no...I was called in the next day to see
my doctor(you know it's bad when they call
you in asap), he told me the
results....The second I stepped foot out
of his office, literally, I started to
bleed!
The following day I had a d&c.
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LUV4KYLE2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 107 Location: PA
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:35am
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What all did they say about the baby and
the fetal dismise? If you dont mind me
asking! And when you had your u/s and you
got pictures did everything look ok to
you?
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:43am
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I didn't even get to see the baby....I
knew something was wrong just from that.
I kept on asking if the baby had a
heartbeat....She wouldn't answer me.
The baby actually stopped developing
around 8 weeks! Crazy, I know. My body
didn't even recognize that the baby wasn't
alive. I know this because the 2 doctors
both told me that my uterus was expanded
to a 12-13 week pregnancy.
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LUV4KYLE2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 107 Location: PA
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Posted: 11-02-05 09:48am
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Well I went to the doctors and they felt
my uterus and said it was bigger than
normal at this time I was like 15 weeks
and they said my uterus felt like a 17-18
week uterus. So I went for u/s to confirm
my dates and at this point I thought I was
like 16 weeks and the tech said I was 14
weeks. Thats 2 weeks off. I did see baby
and he said it had a strong heartbeat of
155. I got u/s pics but this still
concerns me alot because of being 14
weeks. Thats why I was asking you alot of
questions.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 11-02-05 13:47pm
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I don't mind you asking me
questions....Ask as many as you'd like :)
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