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Q: Premature Ejaculation - Question
asked by: *The_Viking* on November 1st, 2005
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Hi all, I am 19 years of age and have a beautiful girlfriend and I do suffer from premature ejaculation. I have posted my whole premature ejaculation story if interested in helping me. I think is was a while ago but you can find it if you search "premature ejaculation" and look for my post. Anyways, I am seriously trying to over come this nightmare and I was actually wondering if it really is possible to overcome premature ejaculation. But like serious premature ejaculation...Like you had it for a few years, and you came after a few thrusts and got really sick of it and did something about it and are now having the greatest sex ever and you are able to hold yourself until you want to cum. That kind of premature ejaculation! Anyways, I would like to hear of anybodys story of actually overcoming pe and would like to know if it really is possible or is its a physical problem that a lot of people such as myself have and it is something ill have to live with. Please answer...It would mean soo much to me to know that there is hope...Please anybody. Anyways, thanks in advance, need to get back to homework now. Thank you.
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cd998776
replied on November 1st, 2005
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*The_Viking*
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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Ok, thank you for replying but.....None of those...I repeat none of those forums has anything to do with what I was asking, thats about people with erectile diffucilties. I dont have erectile diffucilties, I can get him up no problem, its just cumming to fast.... Thats the problem! Please...Anybody with a success story of overcoming premature ejaculation, could you please share it and tell me how you did it. People please, this is very improtant to me...I need some hope to know I can overcome pe. It would be a great confidence builder. Thanks in advance..
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cd998776
replied on November 2nd, 2005
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There are a number of similar threads; search and see what you find. Most recommend masturbating prior to sex, trying the "stop and go method" and learning kegels which you will learn to love in the long run. These are all "free" easy ways to help if not completely solve your problem.
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comebackpoty
replied on November 5th, 2005
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Viking Listen Up
Hey

eversince I overcame ed, pe whatever u wanna call it, I felt kind of good to try to help people out were in a situation similiar to mine and I can say that I am having great sex now, and u can to. It may seem far from your reality but it's very true.


I'd like to now a little more, but I know the frustration and I know I can help u try what worked for me to be a good lover and get your life back

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saglamh23
replied on November 7th, 2005
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*the_viking* wrote:
I dont have erectile diffucilties, I can get him up no problem, its just cumming to fast.... Thats the problem! ..


that is not the problem. That s the difference. Again the same difference issue. One is coming fast and the other is staying forever...And can u say that the other has no problem at all. He is going in and out with no aim. Without an ejaculation, his penis probably will die. I dont know which one is preferable but I know that we had no choice. Can we change what we have been given? They tell some ways but who can guarentee that that "solution" will not cause more severe problems. I think we dont have to learn how to come fast or quick but we have to learn how to be happy...(here I m not only trying to help u, but myself too since I m also a fast comer :)
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redzonebikes
replied on November 18th, 2005
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The more sex you have with the same person, the more confidence youll get and youll get use to sex and begin to last longer, also, I noticed I lasted longer as I got older, until age 19, you could also help this problem by masturbating many times in a row and soon youll get exhausted and slowly start to last longer or before you cum in her just pull out and kiss or do a little more foreplay and then go back to sex and just repeat until your ready to orgasm
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cd998776
replied on November 18th, 2005
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redzonebikes wrote:
you could also help this problem by masturbating many times in a row and soon youll get exhausted and slowly start to last longer or before you cum in her just pull out and kiss or do a little more foreplay and then go back to sex and just repeat until your ready to orgasm


once before sex will help; many times prior to sex may make it difficult for you to maintain an erection. You may want to look into kegels which would allow you to control when you're ready to orgasm/ejaculate with time...
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