Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
Young And Pregnant---need Help From Experienced Posted: 11-01-05 18:55pm
I am not sure this is a reply but more
like a question.....I am 18 and have a
baby on the way my doctors say I am 10
weeks so I am about ten weeks and 2 days.
But that's not the problem the problem is
even though I get sick all the time (like
morning sickness and when I smell certain
things and drive in a car) I don't feel
pregnant. I saw the baby on the
ultrasound and I saw the heartbeat but I
am still scared because I don't know what
happening. I haven't bled, or discharged
(if you don't mind me saying) so I am sure
(but not positive) I didn't have a
miscarriage but I am still worried and
scared could one of you experienced
mothers tell me if this is normal, please?
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loneytearz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
Posted: 11-01-05 19:09pm
Hey hunnie im 17 n im 37weeks prego
today...Phew lol...Ive never really felt
pregnant iether...N I still dont but u
realize ya pregnant when he/she moves more
often which will be happenen in about 8-12
weeks for u...But im the same way I dont
feel pregnant I even went trick or treaten
yesterday(lol) I know im going to be a
mother but I wanted to have some fun b4 my
lil man is here in 3 weeks....N I walked
around fine n did everything fine n being
pregnant never stoped me from doing much
of nething so far so hopefully ull be the
same im not sure if its normal to not feel
pregnant when u are but ive never ever
felt pregnant...Sry if I didnt help hun
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Worried_preg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
Posted: 11-01-05 19:13pm
You helped thank you you were the only one
that wrote back......But yea I don't feel
pregnant at all like people say that I
won't but I am still scared becasue I have
never ben pregnant be4. I wish I could've
gone trick or treating but the school I go
to is called job corps and I live on
campus and they won't let us leave. But
thank you
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loneytearz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
Posted: 11-01-05 19:20pm
Not a problem hun.... I noticed ya from
ri to...Isnt it such a crappy state
lol....I have a couple friends who have
gone to job corps they didnt liek it
much...My sister went for a day n came
home...She said they treated her like she
was in prison...I feel bad for u guys if
thats true...Lol but yea ya still fresh in
ya pregnancy just wait till the baby
doesnt stop moveing lol.... U still wont
feel pregnant but ull def realize that u
are...Lol
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Worried_preg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
Posted: 11-01-05 19:23pm
Yea I am from rhode island....I go to job
corps in exeter...I do remembe a girl that
only came a day her name was like janet
jeanet or something like that....They do
treat us like we are in prison I hate it
but I need and education to supposrt my
baby and I know I will be outin jauary so
it's not that bad.
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loneytearz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2005 Posts: 116 Location: rhode island
Posted: 11-01-05 19:30pm
Yea I dont have a very good education
right now but I plan on getten my ged n
going to a cummity collage or something
aleast...School just wasnt my peice of
cake...To much drama between people n
things....To much judgemental people
to...But I hope ya pregnancy goes well hun
if u ever want to talk or nething I have
aim its thugish420babe u can always im me
when im on ....Congrats
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Worried_preg
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Rhode Island
Posted: 11-01-05 20:06pm
Well thank you........And I hope your baby
is healthy.......Yea school wsn't for me
that's why I wetn to job corps I took my
ged test they are easy...But if they give
you a chance to take ged classes
definately go for them I wouldnt' have
passed ged without them
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gaidens_momma
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 4
Re: Young And Pregnant---need Help From Experienced Posted: 11-02-05 17:32pm
[quote="worried_preg"]i am not sure this
is a reply but more like a question.....I
am 18 and have a baby on the way my
doctors say I am 10 weeks so I am about
ten weeks and 2 days. But that's not the
problem the problem is even though I get
sick all the time (like morning sickness
and when I smell certain things and drive
in a car) I don't feel pregnant. I saw
the baby on the ultrasound and I saw the
heartbeat but I am still scared because I
don't know what happening. I haven't
bled, or discharged (if you don't mind me
saying) so I am sure (but not positive) I
didn't have a miscarriage but I am still
worried and scared could one of you
experienced mothers tell me if this is
normal, please?[/quote
well, I hope I can give youso me good
advise on this. I was 19 when ui found
out I was pregnant with my son. I am now
21 and he is only 14 months old. I wasn't
really scared when I found out I was
pregnant. I too just didnt feel pregnant.
I knew I was. I too was sick throughtout
my entire pregnancy. I was pregnant. Not
once did I feel I did not want the baby.
I just didnt really htink about being
pregnant. I did feel like I was.
After I had my son. In my mind I was
really scared. You never know
responcibilty until you have this little
human being in your arms that is
completely helpless, it depends soley upon
you. I did act out the way I was feeling.
I kept it inside. But I have talked to
alot of people and they have felt that
too. Just didnt say anytihing about.
Angry, mad, so on. But I must tell you.
My son is the greatset oart of my life. I
love him so much. Ihave such and angel.
Once you get passed their immobilty and
their learn to crawl and say their forst
word and theycan smile and find other ways
to communictae with you it becomes so
wonderful. Your know longer a pregnant
young girl or a young girlt hat just had a
baby. Your a mother. And it can be very
rewarding if you let it be. I promise it
always works out.
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aprilb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 11-02-05 22:29pm
You wont feel anything for awhile. I am
18 weeks pregnant. Some people don't even
fell the baby move until about 20 weeks.
You should go to babycenter.Com they give
you emails every week about what is going
on with you and how your baby is growing.
I felt the same as you for a long time,
but after talking to friends who told me
that you really don't feel too much
different than normal I feel much better.
You are just beoming a worrywart like we
all are when we are pregnant.