Help!
I am three months pregnant and my
boyfriend of three years moved out this
weekend while I was out of state visiting
my dad. He doesn't want this baby- so he
left. I am so lost and feel hopeless.
How do I get through this? Do I even want
to?
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 11-01-05 17:05pm
I have never had this happen to me before
so I can't really give you much advice but
I can try to give you support. Many
single women raise children alone
everyday...And do a great job doing it!!
You'll be fine just lean on .God, friends,
and family. I can't believe you two were
together for so long and he just left you!
I think that you are awesome for doing
what you felt was right in keeping your
baby even though he didn't want it. Maybe
this guy of yours just needed time to
think (not to defend him or anything) and
he will come back when he's ready. I
don't know... Maybe you and your baby are
better off without him!! Ahhhh what a
jerk!! Makes me mad!! Look, you'll make
it...We are all here for you. Go to the
preggy forum as well (if you haven't
already been)!!
Good luck and .God bless,
teresa white
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f81002
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Oct 2005 Posts: 6
Hi Posted: 11-01-05 19:09pm
I don't know your beliefs, but I want to
encourge you to keep this child. The
baby should not suffer for the
irresponsibility of his father. He
possibly does need time to think, but do
you really want to be in a relationship
with someone who has to leave to "think"
every time something inconvienences him?
I have a feeling it took this baby to
expose the guy for who he really is.
You deserve far better, and so does your
child. It's hard for me to comprehend
the level of selfishness someone must have
to abandon you in a time like this. In a
healthy relationship, you don't just give
50/50, you give 100% of yourself to the
other person, and this guy obviously is
not. Don't let him do this to you again,
there are too many "good" guys out there.
I won't tell you that it's easy but I
could tell you that the baby within you is
worth it, remember the saying a mother is
one, and a father could be anyone.
God has blessed you within so be the best
you can be and thats both.
Mother & father
u could teach this child anything and
everything you don't need a man to raise a
child, it help but you don't need.....
I have a fatherless child and with in 4yrs
I think I did a good ass job....
I also have a 15 yr old daughter, if you
need someone to chat with my e-mail is x_mia34@ya
hoo.Com
