I had it. It just went bye byez. Sorry I had like the best advice and the it justwent on holidays. Mind blank. My bad. Um... Just go with the flow???

Sorry I couldn't help more. If it come back to me i'll let ya no.

Well I still can't remember but live life the way you want to ive it and not the way everyone else does. So if you have an inner loony let it out and be a loony. :d

No matther what, I wil tell you my story about my ex-boyfriend fell in love like a crazy! He told me when he turn 24 years old he will buy house. He was 20 and I was 16! That look like he turn 24 and I turn 20 years old. Sound like he want to ask me to marry him!
I really can't wait to be with him all my heart I really love him so much. He told me he really want me to go to live with him he want us to be together. The problem is now it broken, everybody are trying my ex-boyfriend and me to break up because of he too old for me and I am too young for him. Then he leaving me!! :cry: I lost him I don't know where he live, I can't find his phone number too. He gone! ::cry:: I still love him so much as I know he still loves me so much too. My parents are forced him to leave me too because of too old for me. I am still maddest of people make us to break up! I am really mad!!

But I feel maybe my parent were right he using me but inside to my heart I knew he loves me so much. My parent told me he using you and too old for you. If you ask him to marry you, he says he is not ready, in 2 years later, ask marry again, he still said not ready? Sounds like he dont want to marry you because he didn't want to hurt your feeling. If you want him to come see him. He got sick, he didn't want to see you maybe? I know he love you and you love him in beleives so much of loves mad. People says they got break up if it really scared. You will never know what will be together or break up. It is your choice which one you want your ex-boyfriend back or you want stay with him. Thinking about it what you want the best of your life. I know it is hard to thinking. Feel like what you belelive or doubit (using or truly) to your heart you feel and thinking about it. Good luck to you of your choice!!

( yeah, we are break up, we are not finish talk about he want break up with me or not but I knew he left me)

Hey thanks for the advice!! I'm still a little confused about this situation but I kinda just put it in the back of my head. I'm still with my bf, things are a little bumpy with us but everything is starting to get better. I talked to the ex on monday *the first time in 2wks* and he told me that he needs to know if there is a chance that him & I will ever get back together...I seriously don't know & I told him that...I still miss him & care about him but I couldn't imagine life without my bf in it...I need my ex in my life though because he was the one I could always run to with my problems & he would always comfort me with his touch & caring words..I've been waking up crying because I had a dream about him or I see his picture & I loose it. It's so confusing...I need them both but I can't have both of them..My bf now we've been together 10 months tomorrow & we've only been broken up about 2-3 wks in those 10 months. I'm really attached to him but i'm emotionally attached to my ex! I haven't talked to him since monday & he said he would 'try' to get ahold of me sometime, that really upset me because if he loved me so much wouldn't he be doing more then what he is or he says he doesn't want to inerfere with my mine & my bf's realtionship which I have to respect him for. He tells me his house is so lonely without me & he can't even look at another girl without seeing my face. Mind you he's 20 & i'm 16. Another thing keeping me with my bf is that I may be pregnant with his child..I couldn't leave him, I want my baby to have it's mommy & daddy together and happy..Ahh idk lol!

Okay look I completely understand your situation. First of all, find out if you're pregnant, and depending on your morals and values I suggest an abortion for 2 reasons: not only are you still in love with someone else and too young to care for the baby, but secondly...You're too young to care for a baby! I personally don't know you and i'm sure you're a very nice girl, all I mean is a 16 year old needs to live out their young adult years and party and go crazy. Don't fantasize about "ouu mommy loves daddy and baby loves everyone" and so on. Please, think with a realistic future in mind.
About the boys, just think about who you get along with more, who you have more in common with, who you're with when you're happiest, why this person makes you happy, and how you would feel if one of them was with someone else.

Ok I suggest you be with the one you trurly love b/c your not doing your current relationship any favours if your in love with someone else... I don't think you need to stay with your current b/f just cause you think your pregnant ..You will regert it if you do... But I don't suggest and abortion like kgirl16 that's just stupid... You decided to open up your legs and have sex at 16... Knowing that there is a big chance of you getting pregnant now deal with what you have done...Don't run to abortion b/c you feel its easier...

I know, I would never have an abortion...Im not preggo ne ways, I started my . ! Im gonna stay with my bf now..He was my first love, we've been together for 10 months today..And he's just great. I just really miss my ex cause we were so close but we're not anymore, I guess its just part of getting over someone? This guy i'm with now were just meant for each other..We've been through so much together & I can't give it up for some jerk off ex..I know i'm only 16 but i've been through a lot with guys and this one makes me sooo happy...And he's been talking about engagement when he turns 18 in about a year...I can't wait...So i've made up my mind...!! Thanks for all the advice though girls!

I kissed my ex and he kissed me and he has a gf is that called cheating or no I need to know

For me I think it is cheating going out with him knowing that your in a relationship is a big "cheating". At this moment it also an eyeopener letting you realize who is really the one you love. It is ok to make a white lie but be sure that you'll tell your bf what is your true feeling for him. Be honest with yourself you'll hurt both yourself and your man.