Please people tell me wat u think :!:

I think that you should be sure that you know that this is the guy you are ready to spend the rest of your life with first of all. I only knew my boyfriend (now husband) for about 4 months before we got pregnant (while I was on the pill)...And it has been very hard. I think that you should wait untill you are married atleast untill you try for a baby. Fall deep in love with your man before you have a baby to fall in love with. Ya know?? If you are desperate to get pregnant and you will be happy no other way then go to your doctor and talk to him/her about some fertilitly pills. I really don't think that is neccessary yet though seeing as though you have only been trying for 2 months. Some couples try for years before finally conceiving. A friend of mine and her hubby are trying for a baby and can't get preggy. She went to her doctor and she told her that she needed to try for atleast a year and if it doesn't happen then she will put her on some pills. Well, good luck in whatever you decide to do. Think and pray about this.

Teresa

Thanks I have come to the conclusion that it will happen when the time is right and not to stress about it but he still wants to try how do I explain this to him so that he can see it from my point of view?

Are you saying that you have decided to wait to have a baby??

Teresa

Yea but i'm not sure how he'll take it. Hes very understandin' but he really wants this.

Okay, how old is he?? Are both of you out of school?? Do you both have good paying jobs?? Sorry about all your questions..I'm just trying to better understand your situation. I'm 19 by the way.

Teresa

Umm yea i'm out of school hes in the military hes 24 i'm currently doing child care.

So, you know that the two of you can support a child?? Are you guys living together?? What does he say about wanting a baby??

Teresa

Yes with out a doubt our child would be supported. Yes we r living together. He just want a family of his own and when we first got together I was going threw depression and told him I wouldn't feel complete untill I had my husband and child so i'm not to sure if thats why he wants one or wat.

It sounds to me like he is just trying to make you happy!! Sounds like a great guy. You should tell him that for now you feel complete with just him. (if that is the case) and that you don't need him to be your husband or need a baby yet. (once again if that is how you feel.) I think he will understand. Wow!!! It didn't take you two long to find a place and get moved in together!!! New relationships are always so much fun!! Anyways, i'm sorry to hear about your depression, I hope you are better now. I just think that you should spend more time with this guy, give yoursleves a chance to experience life together without a baby before you have one. It's so hard to find time for each other when a baby is in the picture.


Teresa

Thank you so much teresa u've really helped!! If u don't mind me asking r u wht or blk?