Ok ladies, this one hits home for me and being a man, I would appreciate a professional opinion especially from the female gender which certainly deserves a degree of expertise. Now here's the question(s):
my wife (a registered nurse) filed for a divorce one year ago and we did battle in court until recently. We have two beautiful childred (boy/girl twins). These kids were planned not oops born only after fertility treatments and seven months of her being confined to the bed by her obgyn since she had troubles carrying in the past resulting in miscarriage in the early stages.
Some months into what became the "war of the roses" I decided that it might be a good idea to get a vasectomy. I knew I would be dating after the divorce and I could see my life could get complicated especially for my two children because of an unplanned pregnancy with another person who may also prove incompatible.
To make it short we attempted a reconciliation that is not working no matter how hard I try and comply to her demand$. Upon my return to the marital domicile she asked me to go by her pharmacy and pay for and retrieve her 'scripts. I was surprised to see the prescription was birth control pills. We had not had sex in over a year and not much before then. Further, she knew of my vasectomy since I put the bill on her health insurance provided by her employer.
When questioned she replied it was only for harmonal purposes to regulate her period. Don't they make other pills for that? Finally, if someone were to put a gun to your head and ask you to answer correctly or die and the question was: is she screwing around on me? What would be your answer?
