Hey mama! Wow..It seems like you been through alot..Well I never been through your situation, but I do wish you and your baby the best in life! Be safe .. If u need anyone to talk to .. Pm me! <3 xo

1. You're 15 and wanting to get married? Uh yeah okay.

2. Your boyfriend's age & yours is illegal, which means when you give the hospital the fathers name they'll arrest him for child molestation in the 2nd degree.

thats not child molestation, thats statutory rape. And I doubt he can be arrested unless charges are pressed against him. And if her parents do give consent then she can get married at her age.

I just wanted to say even though you are a bit young I wish you all the best with you soon to be husband and your baby :d good luck and even though things and people will get you down just know what really matters you and that baby :d

She is a child?


The state will find out because she has to give them the fathers name when she gives birth, if the father does not live with her, he'll have to pay child support.


The hospital nurse she has will report it to social services because thats their job to do so, its not up to the parents, if the law finds out he's edit




it depends the age difference to say it's child molestation or statutory rape.


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Ok well for one my parents do know and they are not gonna get him for rape and the state already knows dumb edit and im waiting til I am 16 to get married and making sure that everything is ok with me and him so that way it doesnt seem like I am just doing it for the baby. And I am going to continue to go to school because they have a daycare there that will help me out!

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are you edit kidding me? You think after her pushing out a baby they're going to call the cops and have him arrested? You're out your mind.

Do you know how many underage girls I know that slept with 19, and 18 year olds? Infact, I know of one that just had her daughter a couple days ago.

You're talking out of your ass, don't scare this girl. I don't agree with 15 year olds wanting to get pregnant, but this girl was obviously trying to prevent it.


You're only 17 years old, so don't even act like you're better than her.


That caca was ridiculous.

put that baby up for adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16 when I had my 1st child. I would have saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been so selfish thinking everything would be ok.

you do whats best for you, all the negative people on the board trying to get to you dont let them. Certainly dont stress yourself out over it. Congratulations again

cherylannb
put that baby up for adoption, your to young, trust me I was 16 when I had my 1st child. I would have saved him a lot of pain if I hadn't been so selfish thinking everything would be ok.


I've been reading your posts, and the things you have to say annoy me. Just because you had a rough time doesnt mean everyone else would. I know people who've had 2 kids b4 they even got out of their teens and have taken care of their kids and yes they state it but they do it, love doing it and can do it. Who are you to tell someone else to put their child for adoption because of age? It isnt your place to determine who is going to be a good parent or not. U've had your chance to live and learn now I think you should keep you comments to yourself and let others do the same. Its ridiculous you trying to make someone give up their child just because of "your" experiences. And dont you think there are already enough people out there given up children for adoption? If every teen were to do so then the world would be an even sadder one.

And to dalicialynn no she isnt a child shes a teenager thats why it would be statutory rape rather than child molestation. And I do not think the state can throw her baby's father is jail. Because then that will cause alot of people going on welfare and receiving stamps. I dont care if im in canada and your in the us, I think ur tryna scare people n your talking a wholeeeeeeeeeeeeee lotta edit

your in no place to tell her to put her child up for adoption. So you regret your choice.. And? That doesnt mean she has to decide just cuz u feel a certain way. Give her advice not tell her what to editdo.

thats what im saying :x

ok, heres my advice, "put that baby up for adoption,and stop being so selfish"! Talk to other adults that have been there,most will tell you the same! Why are you asking other teens for advice? They know as much as you do. Don't you realize if a child asks another child if he should eat candy for breakfast, the other child will say yes it's ok. But ask a responsible adult and you will get a completly different answer. Learn from others mistakes, don't make your own. It's so much easier. Go to barnes n noble, they have a self help section with lots of good books on this subject. Why do you think they are writing these books? They are trying to get through to people who don't know the answers. Also check statistics on how many teen marriages fail. You don't have to belive me, it's in every educated book out there, not in teen magazine!

are you twelve years old? Go read a book!

i think your being very closed minded. Not every child will say that, my brother is 10 and when others try to get him to do something wrong he has a common sence to do the right thing. If she feels she can in no way take care of this child why would she keep it? Why didnt you ask people for advice and give your child up for adoption? Why didnt you go to barns and nobles? Why didnt you take care of a newborn for at least 5-6 hours when you found out you were pregnant. And many of the people on the board are well set and well prepared. They may not be married and they may not be as old as you, but they are determined to love and care for their child and not take an easy way out. And if you look at the stats many adult marriages end in divorce many. I do agree that she should read up on it before having the baby so she knows what shes getting herself into, but dont try and discourage her, thats the last thing she needs at this point.

Cherylannb
i am not 12 im 19, and even though ur old, your styll not sensible :x and I think you should read a book and get off da internet, you a grown woman

You know what? I have talked to other adults which have gone thru this and the answer is always the same "i wouldnt change what happened" some may wish things went about differently.. But the way u make it seem is that you and everyone else around you regrets having children. Thats not true! Offer advice.. Dont try to change someones opinion based on your own. All this girl wanted was for someone to talk too. She never asked whether she should put her child up for adoption or have an abortion and you jump in trying to convince her to get one. Thats not your place to try and tell her what to do.

shock here she goes again!!!!!

Alright this is ridiculous....I don't consider a 15-19 year old "woman" a child.. What are you trying to say...That the day you turn 20 your whole life mysteriously gets put into place and everything is perfect....Obviously if she is having a baby and she is still maintaining the relationship with the baby's daddy and is still going to school(many girls stop going) she is going to have to be and is being responsible....Just because times have changed doesn't mean that ethics have...Shoot, in the early 1900's everyone got married at 15 and 16...If the person is mature enough to love and care for another person/baby....Then let them...Don't tell them to give up there most precious thing and called it selfish...I just had a miscarriage a little bit ago and it was awful...I can only imagine willfully giving him up....Some people who feel as though they cannot love the child maybe should let him go with a family who will...But if they want to keep it let them...Sometimes adoptions make things harder on children as well...Hun...If you want the baby and you know you will be able to love it and care for it....I would say to keep it....But its your decision...Just do what you know is best.

Im 15 and pregnant to my due date is 2morrow :roll: I have had a very miserable pregnancy but I got through it my babys daddy is 18 to and they arent' going to do anything about it but im not with him because he cheated on me with my 14 year old cousin and his mom hates me cause im young and im white she dont belive in mixing races but girl im scared to but I know that every thing is going to be good because I have alot of support from my family and don't listed to how much caca ppl talk on here because they don't know the position your in I do cause im right there to you good luck :wink:

Yeah, give your babys father's name to the hospital when they ask, it's their job in every state it's illegal in to report something like that.

I'm telling you, they'll go after him & arrest him if he doesnt run.

I've seen it happen so many times, so to be honest, think about it all before you act. Do some research to help you understand better.

If my mom worked on a case like that, she'd loose her job if she didn't report it, for the simple fact that it's illegal in the state i'm in. But if its not illegal in the state your in, which you can find out online by researching, then your probably safe.

But the girl who made this post, is from my state & isnt very far from me.