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I am 20, and I have 2 kids. My husband is 26, and has a child from a previous relationship. ( probably irelevant) whenever we have sex, (great sex I might add), he asks me if it still feels big, (which it does), and sometimes, he would rather me suck it during sex, than finish intercourse. I dont mind b/c he always pleases me, and I think I always please him, but by him asking those questions, does that mean that I am too big for him? I have had two kids, so I dont know if that matters. He says sex is great, but I orgasm atleast 3 times compared to his 1. Is this a true concern, or is it all in my head?

Thanks,
marissa
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replied December 10th, 2003
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Hey marissa I think its all in your head. A guys ego usually needs to be told that its still big and not shrinking. Its just to let him know you arent disappointed. And while you come 3 times to his 1 is always normal. During intercourse women have multiple orgasms and men only have 1. Unless you do it again later, he can come again. Its no big concern, your fine.
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replied December 10th, 2003
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Thanks
I did not know that women usually orgasm multiple times to a mans one time. I kind of thought I was weird. Is is also normal to not have an orgasm at all or have lots of tiny ones?

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marissa
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replied December 10th, 2003
Yes, it is normal to have lots of tiny ones... I wouldn't say it is "common" to have multiple orgasms...We few women are just blessed:) it is probably more common to not have any at all. Have fun girls!
Sara
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replied December 11th, 2003
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Yeah not all women have multiple ones, but women only have multiple ones, not men. But like sarah said, its more common not to have one at all. It just depends. Little ones are normal too.
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replied December 14th, 2003
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I would not worry about being "loose" if that is what you mean. Yes, children stretch and having sex all of the time stretches it. However, if you go for a week without sex, your muscles are going to tighten back up. Being "loose" is only a temporary thing anyway.
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replied January 5th, 2004
Men can have multiple orgasms buddy, I do. I don't know how it happens or why but it just happens sometimes.
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