I am 20, and I have 2 kids. My husband is 26, and has a child from a previous relationship. ( probably irelevant) whenever we have sex, (great sex I might add), he asks me if it still feels big, (which it does), and sometimes, he would rather me suck it during sex, than finish intercourse. I dont mind b/c he always pleases me, and I think I always please him, but by him asking those questions, does that mean that I am too big for him? I have had two kids, so I dont know if that matters. He says sex is great, but I orgasm atleast 3 times compared to his 1. Is this a true concern, or is it all in my head?
Hey marissa I think its all in your head. A guys ego usually needs to be told that its still big and not shrinking. Its just to let him know you arent disappointed. And while you come 3 times to his 1 is always normal. During intercourse women have multiple orgasms and men only have 1. Unless you do it again later, he can come again. Its no big concern, your fine.
Yes, it is normal to have lots of tiny ones... I wouldn't say it is "common" to have multiple orgasms...We few women are just blessed:) it is probably more common to not have any at all. Have fun girls!
I would not worry about being "loose" if that is what you mean. Yes, children stretch and having sex all of the time stretches it. However, if you go for a week without sex, your muscles are going to tighten back up. Being "loose" is only a temporary thing anyway.