I'm 24, my gf is 25. Please help. I just woke up from not being able to sleep so i'm posting here. Here is my problem. My gf said she's going with her sisters (2) and brother in law to this hollowin party and I wasn't ok with it at first, then I called her around 9pm because she had said she's gonna go no matter what cause she doesn't wanna miss these parties when she gets 40-50 years old (by the way, she couldn't invite me because we are secret bf/gfs. Our parents are those type that shouldn't know.). So I called her thinking if it that if it was me i'd not have much fun when at a party that my gf said not to go and to tell her that i'm ok with her going. She said then that she wasn't gonna go since I wasn't ok with it. I said that and told her that's it's ok with me and then we were talking when she had to hang up because of her friend (girl) called. She said she'd call back but didn't untill I call aroud 10:15 (45 min later) and I was upset but she said she knew I was ok with her going so she went to get dressed and was in a rush so she couldn't call and said that I shouldn't have been mad.I got more upset and she had to go so we hung up. Untill now (1:53am) I haven't been able to sleep. How could she be having fun when knowing i'm in pain here. I don't wanna sound needy but what should I do.