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Q: How to Make My B/f ..
asked by: kitty2luv on October 28th, 2005
Extremely eHealthy
Love me more , we fight and everything n its tearing us apart what can I do to save it
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
replied on November 7th, 2005
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You can't make anyone love you (or even love you more). You can however, do things to make him happy. Do things like call just to say I love you, when he trys to fight with you just kiss him, rub his back, do all the work when you make love, write him little notes that say I love you, don't do things that you know bother him!! Hope that helped!!

God bless and good luck,
teresa
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Loki_
replied on November 8th, 2005
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Communicate. Try talking it out. See what's bothering him maybe? Could be something else thats troubling him. Just talk, and see what's up. Thats the only way you'll really find out, and fight the urge to fight pretty much, just be a listener and hear his side.
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kitty2luv
replied on November 8th, 2005
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I know one issue we fight about is money . I live with him n his mom n lil brother , and he only gets 500 every 2 weeks and im hoping I get this job to help us out on things . Another reason we fight is cuz we spend to much time together so , he joined the fire company and I go down to my moms house alot . Past few days we have been keeping the fighting down n I feel happy again . Maybe that what we needed is time apart hopefully I stop stressing and me n him makes a baby :)
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
replied on November 8th, 2005
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You two should get out on your own before making a baby. Living with family is hard enough. My husband and I used to live with my aunt and her children and for some reason we get along alot better now that we are in our own place. Maybe it's the privacy. I don't know. Anyways, i'm happy to hear that you guys are doing better... Sometimes a little time apart is all it takes.

God bless and good luck,

teresa
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betterknow
replied on November 17th, 2005
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Love...
Is a strange thing. I always wanted my first (ex) bf to love me, because I loved him sooo much. I was only 18 and when he broke up with me, he looked at me straight in the eyes and said, "i never loved you, not for a single second" it broke my heart. Then I realized the most beautiful thing. It was my priviledge to love someone that much, because people don't even ever fall in love. And I had the opportunity to love and spoil someone that much and girl, i'm saying, I racked up my credit cards to buy him things, and now that I am 23, we are still friends and he still regrets breaking up with me. He is like a girlfriend to me. Lol but love someone a lot. Because that will never run out and believe me, someone will give you all that love back, even if its not him. And I am saying it from practical experience.
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betterknow
replied on November 17th, 2005
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Re: How to Make My B/f ..
Love is a strange thing. I always wanted my first (ex) bf to love me, because I loved him sooo much. I was only 18 and when he broke up with me, he looked at me straight in the eyes and said, "i never loved you, not for a single second" it broke my heart. Then I realized the most beautiful thing. It was my priviledge to love someone that much, because people don't even ever fall in love. And I had the opportunity to love and spoil someone that much and girl, i'm saying, I racked up my credit cards to buy him things, and now that I am 23, we are still friends and he still regrets breaking up with me. He is like a girlfriend to me. Lol but love someone a lot. Because that will never run out and believe me, someone will give you all that love back, even if its not him. And I am saying it from practical experience
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tonii9999
replied on June 8th, 2006
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How Do I Get My B/f
I now how u feel me and my b/f are falling apart and it herts. We dont even have sex..
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