It depends on the person. Some women show starting at three months and some dont show until 6-7months.

As far as the baby moving. They say for most women it is between 18-22 weeks of pregnancy, however you can feel little flutters before that.

I've heard btwn 16-20 wks u can feel early movements but atleast if it doesn't happen that soon you can get an extra joy at knowing your babys ears are developed enough to hear you talking at 16wks. Yeaaaa