Is He a Friend Or a Tease? Posted: 10-26-05 16:51pm
Hi, please could I have your opinions on
this guy I met. I met him 2 years ago,
he has a lt boyfriend for the last 8 years
however cheats on him. And I would not
get involved with a guy with a bf anyway.
So we became friends, while clubbing,
however my feelings for him developed over
time, and have found that I have fallen
for him. I tried to end our friendship,
as I knew that I wanted to have sex with
him, but it never worked.. I understand
that a relationship is never an option, if
we was with his bf or not.
However, he blows hot and cold with me.
I know he liked me at first, but he cooled
off when we became friends. But he
always wants to check out my penis in the
toilets in a bar/club. He knows now that
I like him. But pushes me away when I
try it on with him. And the last time I
went for a drink with him, he starting
touching me up through my jeans a few
times, which I laughed off and told him to
stop doing. Its like we are playing cat
and mouse with each other, but I end up
hurt. I have never met a guy on the
scene that does this kind of thing, its
almost like he is torturing me....Or just
teasing me, as he likes to have someone
around that finds him attractive. I
really don't know how to handle the
situation, I don't want to lose the
friendship but what the best thing to do
with a guy like this.
......?
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cd998776
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Aug 2005 Posts: 996 Location: Ohio
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Posted: 10-26-05 20:57pm
Isn't it basically an old rule that when
someone does the things that you mentioned
that they do like you; it's just sort of
in a weird way because your not in a
relationship.
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Happy_chappy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2005 Posts: 2 Location: London
Posted: 10-27-05 16:42pm
Well you could be right, if he likes me, I
don 't see why he does not just get on
with it, and get it on...He has with other
guys.
Come on people, their must be some other
views out there..
