Q: I Want to Save My Relationship And Here Is My Problem.
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joeparker1
on October 26th, 2005
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Hi everyone,
my name is joe and I am 21 years of age and my fiance is 20. We have been together for 4 years and we have a 14 month old beatifull daughter who I love dearly. See my fiance was a virgin when I met her and I had a relationship before my fiance and ended up having sex with the women before my fiance. For 4 years never seemed to be a problem and all of sudden she wants to leave me over it and she states she can't deal with the fact I had sex with someone else. She says during our intercourse she wonders what positions I had my ex in etc.. I told her the truth about everything. My ex and I never had unprotected sex and my fiance was my first unprotected and I am thankfull it is her. But she still sees it as me being with another women. We have a big apartment together and have been living together for 3 years and I can't throw away all the memories with her and my daughter. I just can't loose her. I do everything for her. I wash her clothes, hang them and my daughters, I change the baby, feed the baby wash and play with the baby. I cook, clean, work and do all the chores while she crochets. She says oh maybe I am manic depressive etc.. And she takes off her wedding rings and then puts them on a week later. I just am so sad and just want a happy family and watch and raise my daughter. I don't know what to do or say but I feel this is really stupid to end a relathinship over. One day she is kissing me and all over me and next wants to leave me. I don't know. Someone please help. I tried so much. Thanks, joe
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