I am not preaching to the already pregnant, if you would see oatmealfairy that I also posted that note as a topic. If people aren't on their own and making it by themselves I don't see why they want to get pregnant. Why do you want to start a family in your familys home. That doesn't make sense to me. Who wants their mom all in their business and still having a say so in their lives if they have their own to care for now. I am not judging anyone, I didn't say one that they are going to hell and they are low worthless people! I am trying to get through to some of these stubborn girls. I used to be one of them girls, wanting a baby because I had a void in my life, but that doesn't mean I wasn't smart enough to look at the consequences. Luckily I had someone there to preach to me. I am not judgmental at all! I care for people and look to help anyone I can. I dont thinkthat sitting outside of an abotion clinic would do anything for the girls that are killing their unborn, what I was saying is real stuff that happens. Oatmealfairy if you have children then you will know what I mean when I say it is self-sacrificing!