My Partner Claims He Is Unable to Cum By Having Oral Sex... Posted: 10-25-05 10:38am
Please help:-(... I would like to know
what can I do to make him cum by having
oral sex?He admits that the only way he
cums is by having sex...Mental problem or
not I would love to make it happen for
him...I think he would really enjoy this
and so would i.. What should I or
shouldent I do ??
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CECI
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 5 Location: TEXAS
Posted: 10-27-05 12:50pm
Hey all, is it even possible for a man not
to cum by oral sex or even
ejaculation?Only by sex?
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 10-27-05 13:06pm
Maybe do it harder and faster .. I dunno
what to tell you.. Look on websites to
get ideas
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jma1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2005 Posts: 85 Location: Alabama
Posted: 10-27-05 23:06pm
Sorry if I get graphic here but my husband
is able to all the time. Play with his
area around the outside of his penis.
Kiss the crease of his leg, near hip bone.
Play for a minute so he can relax and
enjoy it. If he moves , sits up, trys to
watch tell him--lay back. Once you start
make sure there is alot of lube (natural
is better, I mean spit)(the more artifical
flavors you put down there the worst it
tastes if you have to stay down for a few
minutes) I play with the tip and the rim
with my tongue. Also I move down the
shaft licking or nibbling. After I get
him comfortable and then really wanting
it, I start perfroming the oral sex. Try
to use both hands-one on his penis and one
on his testicles rubbing them. Apply
sight pressure with your lips and suck at
the same time. Gradually get faster and
after a few minutes it should be done.
It takes me 3 minutes at the most to do
it. Its really great because if I am not
in the mood he can still get off.
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jma1
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2005 Posts: 85 Location: Alabama
Posted: 10-27-05 23:18pm
Oh yeah, make sure the lighting is low.
The less light the sexier the mood tends
to be.
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CECI
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 5 Location: TEXAS
Posted: 10-28-05 09:07am
Hey thanks jma1, I will try this hopefully
it works for him.. So guyes really like
it wen you grab and play around with their
testicles?I havent tried that.. But I
will..
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shoneen
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2004 Posts: 147
Posted: 10-31-05 00:01am
My fiance' is the same way. I have been
trying forever to get him to cum with oral
sex and it does not work. Funny thing
though, he can't cum by jacking off
either, unless he's watching porn. But
we've tried to do the whole "i'll get you
stimulated, you jack off the rest of the
way" bit trying to figure him out and that
doesn't work. He said that he's only
done it one time and the girl caught him
off guard. I have tried a thousand and
one different ways, i've even tried to
deep throat it (which isn't easy as those
with strong/weak gag relfex know), and
that didn't work, we've tried well
lubricated extra fast extra hard playing
with everything and it still does not
work. Some guys are just weird.
