Hey all, is it even possible for a man not to cum by oral sex or even ejaculation?Only by sex?

Maybe do it harder and faster .. I dunno what to tell you.. Look on websites to get ideas

Sorry if I get graphic here but my husband is able to all the time. Play with his area around the outside of his penis. Kiss the crease of his leg, near hip bone. Play for a minute so he can relax and enjoy it. If he moves , sits up, trys to watch tell him--lay back. Once you start make sure there is alot of lube (natural is better, I mean spit)(the more artifical flavors you put down there the worst it tastes if you have to stay down for a few minutes) I play with the tip and the rim with my tongue. Also I move down the shaft licking or nibbling. After I get him comfortable and then really wanting it, I start perfroming the oral sex. Try to use both hands-one on his penis and one on his testicles rubbing them. Apply sight pressure with your lips and suck at the same time. Gradually get faster and after a few minutes it should be done. It takes me 3 minutes at the most to do it. Its really great because if I am not in the mood he can still get off.

Oh yeah, make sure the lighting is low. The less light the sexier the mood tends to be.

Hey thanks jma1, I will try this hopefully it works for him.. So guyes really like it wen you grab and play around with their testicles?I havent tried that.. But I will..

My fiance' is the same way. I have been trying forever to get him to cum with oral sex and it does not work. Funny thing though, he can't cum by jacking off either, unless he's watching porn. But we've tried to do the whole "i'll get you stimulated, you jack off the rest of the way" bit trying to figure him out and that doesn't work. He said that he's only done it one time and the girl caught him off guard. I have tried a thousand and one different ways, i've even tried to deep throat it (which isn't easy as those with strong/weak gag relfex know), and that didn't work, we've tried well lubricated extra fast extra hard playing with everything and it still does not work. Some guys are just weird.