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Q: Last Longer (how???)

asked by: Jadc on October 24th, 2005

New User

Hello

im 16 years of age me and my girlfriend have sex quite alot... But im scared that I dont satisfy her good..I am her 1st and shes says dont worrie... But she has problems she says... That she cant reach an orgasm quick enough with me... Because its either im banging her in all persisions n all but I cant last long... Is it because im young?

I would jus love to last longer in bed.!!!

N e tips

the longest we have had sex must of been 45mins b4.

Replies(10)

Jadc

replied on October 25th, 2005

New User

Oh come on this site was much helpful b4

junfanJKD

replied on October 25th, 2005

New User

It's called premature ejaculation and I can tell you is get some pills or something I dont really know

cd998776

replied on October 25th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Actually, based on your age, I would say that it's nerves. You are so nervous about what you are doing (pleasing her) that you likely ejaculate prematurly. Do you ejaculate quickly suring masturbation? The best I can give is:
*masturbate prior to sex to prolong how long you last
*try the "stop and go" method. It's best if your prtactice this suring masturbation first.

*try kegels; while you won't see the results right a away, you'll surly like and enjoy the future results.

Jadc

replied on October 25th, 2005

New User

Its not as much as im nervous.... Its that I try pleasing my girlfrend so much... Because were I cum quicker then her after it im worn out from pounding her n all but I cant do that much offen because ill be close..Cos it jus feels like I jus used her to pleasure me I know I shouldnt feel that way but it does ... We love each other and all so it wouldnt ruin our relationship thnk god...

She finds it hard to reach orgasm tho.....We tryed this..I was talkin dirty to her while she was rubbing her clit.. That is the main way she gets her orgasm... And when she was close I went inside her and started going at it and we came together and that was brilliant I would jus love to do it more....

What are these pills can I get them in local pharmacy?Would viagra do the job ?

cd998776

replied on October 26th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

jadc wrote:

what are these pills can I get them in local pharmacy?Would viagra do the job ?

considering the fact that you're a minor, pills are not an option. On a side note, pills are not the answer for you; it's not like you have trouble getting an erection. In reality, you have no problem, you just want to last longer than what is already a long time; try what I mentioned above...

Jadc

replied on October 26th, 2005

New User

Appreciate your help guys thnx alot :)

cd998776

replied on October 26th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Re: Lasting Longer

happyharry wrote:

there are a number of things you can try to last longer, I would tell you to try the following first as it has helped many man. It a new product called adam's patch. Ive been using it for like 6 months and I can now last over an hour with my wife.

except for the fact that, as mentioned above, he is a minor.

Human

replied on October 26th, 2005

Experienced User

Your Not Having Problems

45 minutes is not a short time by any standards.
Nothing wrong with you at all in fact at 16 I could never last that long.
First off a lot of women just have a harder time cumming it's not your fault
second the longer you stay together the more you'll learn what turns her on and the easier it'll be for her to orgasm.
I suggest giving her more oral in time you can perfect that. Most women get really turned on by this and cum easier from oral than from sex. Even better get her wet with a little licking then medical question her.
Otherwise just don't worry bout it like I said lots of girls just do not cum as often while others seem to cum all the time it's just physiological differences nothing more nothing less.

cd998776

replied on October 26th, 2005

Active User, very eHealthy

Human is right, 45 minutes is not a short period of time by any standard. Human makes some good points...

Jadc

replied on October 27th, 2005

New User

Re: Your Not Having Problems

human wrote:

45 minutes is not a short time by any standards.

Nothing wrong with you at all in fact at 16 I could never last that long.

First off a lot of women just have a harder time cumming it's not your fault
second the longer you stay together the more you'll learn what turns her on and the easier it'll be for her to orgasm.
I suggest giving her more oral in time you can perfect that. Most women get really turned on by this and cum easier from oral than from sex. Even better get her wet with a little licking her.

Otherwise just don't worry bout it like I said lots of girls just do not cum as often while others seem to cum all the time it's just physiological differences nothing more nothing less.

i believe that you are right human.What it is I think I just try to rush things between the sheets ;) surpose I jus got to hold back :/ but when im at her house we have to plan the sex because if we didnt we wouldnt at all because her mother pop in n out of bedroom :p

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