when you said you talked to him and you told him he should just take care if he doesnt want children because you just do, did you mean you want to leave him?

Is your question of being bad about leaving him if he doesnt want children or are you bad if you get pregnant anyway?

I meant for him to use protection if he doesnt want any...But that was a while ago. Right now I just want to wait for when he is ready...We are being very careful..

Ahh I see. I bet it is frustrating. For me and my husband we kind of had the opposite problem at first. He was wanting to have a baby before we were even married! It took me about a year to decide to try.

A chlid should be raised by parents who are joined in ideals and all that ground work.

If a joint decision was not taken to create that child then its gone wrong rigth from the start.

If hes says hes not ready.. Then hes not.. If you push him he may flee.