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asked by: kitty2luv on October 24th, 2005
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Me and my b/f been together for 7 months and we fight alot over stupid stuff im 18 and he's 20 and we are trying to make it last , we want a baby so we are trying for that and its been stressful maybe that y I havent got preg :( what are some suggestion to help me and him out ?
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Joey9725
replied on October 24th, 2005
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Do you want help getting pregent? Or do u want help in your realtionship? Sorry bit confused. What are you two fighting over?

Take care
jn
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Jennifer23
replied on October 25th, 2005
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If you two are fighting over stupid stuff - I think the last thing y'all need to try for is a child. Bringing a child into this world when the relationship is on the line is not the best thing you could do right now. Plus, it will just make things between you guys more difficult. (not to mention, hurting the child in the long run).

I think you guys need to establish communication and figure out what's causing all the fighting. Once you have stabilized your relationship, then you can move on to other things that are more serious.
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kitty2luv
replied on October 27th, 2005
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I just turned 18 and I want some free dome from him , I live with him n his mom and brother .. The main reason we fight is becuz of that house , I mean him mom n brother are lazy and dont clean up after them self , I grew up in a clean house im not used to living in a mess , then sometimes he gets made cuz I say I want sex one min. And dont want it the next , so he gets pissed for that , he should just be happy he is getting it right? We have two 8 month old puppies and he is supposed to take them out , and I ask him to and he's like yeah i'll do it and 10 mins later he's still sitting on his butt so I get mad a bring them out , they are 70 lb dogs and im tiny they pull me and everything I have a bad neck cuz of a car accident , and he is self-fish he needs to act more like a 20 year old and not like a 12 year old , I guess we are two different people , oh and another thing is he wants to get married in the next year and I dont want to get married till things are good , and we can afford to get out on our own , he's working but only 500.00 every two weeks and he's getting another job next month and ive been trying to get one but no1 will hire me .. Im stressed out ! We need help ....
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rdy4one
replied on October 27th, 2005
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With that being said, if you two can't get along with 2 8 month old puppies, what makes you think you two will get along with a baby? Food for thought
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kitty2luv
replied on October 27th, 2005
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That is true .......... Its hard talking cuz we both get mad 2 eachother ,
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Liz26
replied on October 29th, 2005
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You definetly do not want to bring a baby into that. It will not make you closer, it will make things worse. Also, you are both so young and really haven't been together that long.
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kitty2luv
replied on November 4th, 2005
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Well me n my b/f been spending time apart nm we still have our lil fights but not big fights where I would get mad and hit stuff .. My hand is hurt and I hurt my foot .. But hopefully we can get over our stupiedness n have a baby ;)
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