I just turned 18 and I want some free dome from him , I live with him n his mom and brother .. The main reason we fight is becuz of that house , I mean him mom n brother are lazy and dont clean up after them self , I grew up in a clean house im not used to living in a mess , then sometimes he gets made cuz I say I want sex one min. And dont want it the next , so he gets pissed for that , he should just be happy he is getting it right? We have two 8 month old puppies and he is supposed to take them out , and I ask him to and he's like yeah i'll do it and 10 mins later he's still sitting on his butt so I get mad a bring them out , they are 70 lb dogs and im tiny they pull me and everything I have a bad neck cuz of a car accident , and he is self-fish he needs to act more like a 20 year old and not like a 12 year old , I guess we are two different people , oh and another thing is he wants to get married in the next year and I dont want to get married till things are good , and we can afford to get out on our own , he's working but only 500.00 every two weeks and he's getting another job next month and ive been trying to get one but no1 will hire me .. Im stressed out ! We need help ....