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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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No Baby Yet :(
Posted: 10-24-05 10:25am
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I am still trying for a baby , its been 5
months now .. My b/f thinks that on the
8th month of us being together I am going
to get preg.. But I dont think so .. Me
or him might have something wrong with us
to not b able to have a baby , my gyno
said everything looks fine for me but he's
never been to a "man" doctor when should
we decide to see a doctor?
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
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Posted: 10-24-05 12:33pm
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As I go through the forums there are alot
of young girl getting preg, not on purpose
. And its been 5 months and nothing now
im thinking there is really something
wrong with either me or my b/f does any
one else feel this way?
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poohbear101
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004
Posts: 383
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Posted: 10-24-05 15:18pm
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In some of the posts you'll also notice
that some women have said that when
they've stopped trying is when it happend.
If your doc says theres nothing wrong
with you then trust that. Ttc is
stressful for some people because they
want it to happen so bad and that kind of
stress isn't good for your body. I think
you should stop trying for awhile and just
be with your bf because you want to be not
because you want something out of it, you
may be surprised at what happens.
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NAtea
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2005
Posts: 5
Location: singapore
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Posted: 10-25-05 03:15am
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My advise is u got to keep trying for
about 2yrs then you will conceive.
Now ur ovaries are just starting to get
use to the sperm consume.. Take ur time
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Lilypad
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Joined: 10 Oct 2005
Posts: 1043
Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 10-27-05 01:23am
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Ttc for up to a year is perfectly normal.
Just make sure you are having plenty of
sex and covering all your bases. There
is a great chart for charting your basal
body temperature and cervical mucas on www.Justmommies.Com
good luck to you!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 10-27-05 11:31am
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Im making a chart for my next period when
that starts im going to keep tract of my
temp and all that , if nothing happens
that month we're going to stop trying and
im going to get in shape ..And start
"trying" agian in a few months
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Lilypad
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Joined: 10 Oct 2005
Posts: 1043
Location: Ohio, USA
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the Waiting Game
Posted: 10-28-05 09:09am
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When my hubby and I first started trying
we tried for 6 months...No baby..Then I
got frustrated and decided to go back on
the pill for two months...Then the first
month I got off the pill I got pregnant-
go figure. Its all so confusing..
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nnclyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Jun 2005
Posts: 136
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Posted: 10-28-05 10:32am
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It's not uncommon for it to take 6 to 8
months to become pregnant. And it's hard
to "relax" when it's not happening for
you. The usual routine is that if you
are under the age of 30 and have not
become pregnant after a year..That you
would go for a full fertility workup,
which includes a series of tests.
Are you tracking your cycles? Do you
know the signs of when you are most
fertile?
There's a great book out there for
learning about your fertility signs, how
to chart and timing for conception.
Here's a link for it:
edit
i've actually given it to a lot of
girlfriends :)
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 10-28-05 11:25am
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Im "trying" to chart it . Its hard I
figured I would wait till my next period
to fully chart everything.. Its due
nov-17 or so last month it was 11 days
eairler and I was hoping I was preg.. But
wasn't :( but hopefully soon I will b
able to b a mommy :p
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pinkdragoneye
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Oct 2005
Posts: 32
Location: surrey
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Posted: 10-31-05 11:15am
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If you suspect something is wrong you need
to go see your docter as soon as
possible.. Me and my boyfriend have been
trying for around 3-4 months i'm still not
pregnant so i'm making a docters
appointment now cause I think I could be
infertile..
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005
Posts: 1043
Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 11-02-05 02:09am
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Damn doesnt it suck when you want a baby
so bad and wait and wait and wait and then
you see all these "oops im pregnant" not
sure what to do crap...Sorry just equally
frustated that everyone I know is getting
pregnant but me.... :evil: :?: :?:
:!: :!:
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 11-02-05 02:57am
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You know they have ovulation tests now?
(should be kept away from the younger
girls who are dying to have a baby to drag
around)
it's to tell when you ovulate so you can
get pregnant & don't have to worry
about trying so hard.
You should look into it, i'm sure it would
help a lot?
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sbslove
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005
Posts: 82
Location: Vail, IA
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Posted: 11-02-05 13:20pm
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| dalicialynn
wrote: | you know they have ovulation
tests now? (should be kept away from the
younger girls who are dying to have a baby
to drag around)
it's to tell when you ovulate so you can
get pregnant & don't have to worry
about trying so hard.
You should look into it, i'm sure it would
help a lot? |
actually the ovulation tests do not tell
you when u are ovalating. All they do is
tell u when u have ur lh hormone surge,
which means u will ovalate 36-48 hours
after u get ur surge. But u can still
have ur surge and not ovalate. So they
are good to know around when to start
having sex but not for ur actual
ovalation.
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-02-05 15:02pm
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My temp is usally 97.2-97.8 and for the
past 3-4 days its been in the 98's can
that be a sign of me being preg
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sbslove
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005
Posts: 82
Location: Vail, IA
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Posted: 11-02-05 15:41pm
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| dalicialynn
wrote: | | that's
retarded! |
if u don't believe me go ask ur doctor.
Look it up on the net. I can find
articles to prove it too u. Plus I
learned it in nursing school. Plus it
even says it in the instructions to the
test strips.
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Lilypad
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005
Posts: 1043
Location: Ohio, USA
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Posted: 11-03-05 09:07am
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Yeah yeah but if you didnt ovulate when
the "surge" or whatever was detected then
you wouldnt ovulated at any other time
that cycle either, right??
Umm since you know about this do you
happen to know about the statistics of
ovulation- like does the average woman
ovulate every month ? Or do some of us
skip a month now and then ? Ya know????
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sbslove
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2005
Posts: 82
Location: Vail, IA
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Posted: 11-03-05 12:42pm
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Here's an except from one site saying
about the ovulation predictor tests. Ur
not the only ones that thought it
predicted the actual ovalation, thats y I
did my research on it.
If an ovulation predictor test kit says
positive, that means that I am for sure
ovulating, right?
Ovulation predictor kits determine whether
the luteinizing hormone (lh) is detected.
The luteinizing hormone (lh) rises right
before ovulation occurs. Therefore the
kits are supposed to detect whether your
going to ovulate but can not ensure that
you do ovulate.
Women may have a high level of the lh if
they have certain conditions such as
polycystic ovaries, premature ovarian
failure (pof), or for women over age 40
who are experiencing perimenopause. Any
of these conditions could result in a
false positive result on an ovulation
predictor test.
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-03-05 13:40pm
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So with my temp being up is that a good
sign im preggers?
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SadMommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Posts: 194
Location: California
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Posted: 11-03-05 14:56pm
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That is all true , but it is a good tool
to use because it pinpoints when you most
likely will ovulate..... Everything man
made has its conditions regarding
accuracy. Nothing in life is 100% but
everything is worth trying.....Good luck
girls!
T~
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