Can Anyone Give Me Some Advice?? Posted: 12-06-03 15:34pm
My boyfriend says he loves me, but the
thing is im preg at 17 and he always wants
to have sex everytime hes over. Why is
that and then when I tell him I dont want
to because im afraid it will hurt the baby
he gets mad and says I dont love him.
What should I do. Im 4 months and im kind
of scared of this.
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Under_ten_dollars0001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2003 Posts: 5 Location: The good old U S of A
Posted: 12-06-03 15:52pm
Your boyfriend...Sounds lovely. No,
really, he probably does love you, but
guys are horndogs. They think when you
regect sex, you're really regecting them.
Sit him down and explain to him that
you're concerned sex with hurt the baby,
and that he should be worried about that,
not sex. Also, im not sure how far along
in a pregnancy is dangerous to have sex,
but look into that just to make sure.
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 12-06-03 15:56pm
If he loves u,he wouldnt b pressurising
u.U need 2 sit him down & explain
exactly how u feel after all, u cant have
sex 4 6 weeks after the babies born so how
will he cope then?..........
Gud luck sweetie
liz x
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 12-08-03 10:07am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 14:01pm; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 12-08-03 15:46pm
I think I read its good when you have sex
during pregnancy. But talk to him if you
dont want to be having sex. He should be
getting all mad over it. Its not like hes
gonna die if he cant. You need to talk to
him and say "if you love me enough, youll
relax and spend time doing other things
for now" if he cant and he gets mad...Then
you know what you should do.
