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Q: Single Father In Need of Advice.
asked by: ludesleep on October 22nd, 2005
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I dont know really where to start... We met in college and dated for around 9-10 months..Very in love and she got pregnate. Everything was fine untill the baby was born. Around three months she freaks out on me and moves back home with her parents. Long story short I finish school here three years later im living in her parents house with her and my son of two years. I havent dated anyone since she left cause for the longest time I was convenced it was post pardom depression. But every since the birth she has been negative in so many ways to me. Well tonight I found out she met some guy at the club last night with some girls from school. I come home today she soooo nice to me? Then twice tonight ive caught her sneakin around outside talkin on her cell phone? Shes obviously talkin to some guy she met......Anyways..Here I am in her parents house(hopeing we were gonna work things out) and she desides after three years...Now shes gonna date? Im so worried about our son and what hes gonna think.. Im so worried about her being hurt or guys takin advantage of her. I dont know what to do....But im losing alot of sleep right now. What should I do? I love her very much
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mstafkap
replied on February 14th, 2006
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Just My 2 Cents...
I know u posted this a while ago, but I wanted to throw in my little piece... Be a father to your child and let his mother live her own life... People do what they want to do regardless of what you say or do, so don't think you can try to make or persuade her to do what you feel is right or what you want her to do... You also need your own space, so if you're finacially able, it wouldn't hurt for you to get your own place so you and your son can spend quality time with each other...

Ts1~
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ksedok
replied on May 28th, 2009
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my son is 3 years old i have noticed my son looks nothing like me his eyes are blue no one in ether family has blue eyes when x wife and me where trying to get pergnet for year i thought she may have cheated on me i know the man and my son looks more like him blue eyes and all my son also has birth mark on arm and the mans three kids have the same birth mark plus my wife did not tell me she was pergnet two after she already knew
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BridgetWolf
replied on June 10th, 2009
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Wow, this is very complicated. Are you sure firsthand you didnt accidently send off a bad vibe? I dont understand why she would leave you like that. Is she the type to leave? Im so heartbroken over this. Have you been paying enough attention to her and her son? Did she expect more? Did she think you are cheating on her? Ive got to know the details so I can fully understand what went on. I really want to listen.
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shubh
replied on August 11th, 2009
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First of all try to convince her about the future life requirements. Try make her understand about the responsibilities and the future of the child. Involve the parents too in discussion. Don’t live here, make your own arrangement.
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