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Q: Revealing Too Much, Too Soon?

asked by: TysonH on October 19th, 2005

Experienced User

Ok guys, when is a woman revealing too much too soon!?!? I am askin the guys that are seriously wanting a relatioship..Not the guys that just want a piece of a$$. My g/f and I have been dating for 6 months, and I still get uneasy bout her exposing her breasts..I know it's the fact that is comfortable with me and loves me..It's just weird, since she's my first to have sex with, and she's my first to see breasts. However, I enjoy them..Just makes me have mixed feelings.. Ne comments would be great..Thanks!!

Replies(5)

saglamh23

replied on October 20th, 2005

Experienced User

Hey enjoy it! Think, what if she hesitated to show them to u. Would it be better that showing willfully (which means that she trusts u n she loves u)

TysonH

replied on October 20th, 2005

Experienced User

This is true. Like with sex and all though...Or even fooling around too soon..I didn't watn to think of her as easy, ya know. After 2 whole months of dating, she kinda wanted to fool around. It just kinda made me uneasy to think like that..

discreet

replied on October 31st, 2005

New User

Either direction you go, a person is revealing too much too soon when the partner isn't ready for it. I believe strongly in sex in the bonds of marriage only. Why? Because at the point that the two are ready to stick together forever, then they will both be ready to share their bodies in like kind. You may, and probably do disagree with that belief. Be that as it may, it's too soon if you aren't ready.

TysonH

replied on November 2nd, 2005

Experienced User

Well the thing is, is that we both enjoy it..I mean I look forward to it too. Just that I know she's had sex with other guys..And it just sucks thinkin bout that..Ya know. But I also don' twant her to want to have sex alllll the time...So yea, in a way I kinda want her to slow down too..But not completely stop.

gta67

replied on November 3rd, 2005

New User

Usually it is the male who is more sexually aggressive and she may see your lack of interest as a challenge. Personally I don't think 6 months is too soon for her to reveal her breasts to you. You should embrace the fact that she is in love with you and thoroughly enjoy your time together. Don't worry about the other men she has been with because the older you get the more men your girlfriend at the time will have been with.

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