I had an affair with with my friends wife while I was going thru my divorce. I could not stop the feelings I had for her, in addition to knowing she was being mentally and physically abused. Four months went by and we got caught and all hell broke loose. She is now divorced with four children and trying to re-build her life. In the mean time I found somebody else and we have broken off the relationship. She has excepted it and is moving on. We occasionally keep in touch too see how things are going in each others life. The big problem is I am living with a extreme amount of guilt over the whole affair and am not sure how to deal with it anymore. I have broken up a family, and even though it was just as much her decision as mine to get involved and maybe it was better for everyone, it still was not my place or time to determine that. What can I do? I am becoming very depressed over this not sure if I need medication and counseling or ???