I also am 4 weeks post total abdominal hysterectomy with burch bladder suspension. You really don't give me a lot of hope for the swollen belly, considering i've had three other abdominal surgeries (2 c-sections and a tubal ligation/dual hernia repair). I felt better at 2-3 weeks than I do now. I too am experiencing pinching, pulling and also some burning around the incision area, as well as weightedness. I have lost six pounds post-op, but realize the potential for weight gain is pretty high.
At the same time my husband is suffering from manic depression and I have a lot on my plate. We are both going through a healing process, but I feel i'm the one supporting him emotionally right now. In other words, I could really use a hug right about now.
I just wanted to share with some people who understand what I am going through physically and emotionally. Thanks for listening ... And I wish you all the best in healing. We'll all get through this. Sharon