11 And Want2 Hav a Baby.

First of all I would like to say that I am 27 years old. I would love to have a baby, but I am mature enough to understand what it takes to be a good parent. I want to be able to give my baby everything possible and right now i'm not financially in a situation where I can do that. Hopefully I will be in the next year. Also, I just got married. Marriage is a very important role when your debating on whether or not you want to have a baby. If you are under the age of 21 and you want to have a baby you are making a huge mistake. You don't realize it now, but you will miss out on your entire life. I have so many girlfriends that got pregnant when they were 15 and 16 and they lost their whole youth b/c of it. Of course they love their kids, but they wish they had waited until they were older to start having them. Babies are not all fun and cute. It takes a lot of hard work 24 hours a day 7 days a week. There is no getting away from it. If you are depending on your parents to support you and your new baby then your just selfish and dumb. Go ahead have a baby. You'll be wishing you had waiting about 2 days after that baby is born. No more going out and having fun w/ the buddies. No more boyfriend b/c young guys/boys don't want you afterwards. They want to be out having fun and sleeping around while your at home with your new baby crying and staying up all night long. Its really sad that these thoughts would even enter your head at such a young age. You will lose everything. Remember what I said, b/c its true whether you beleive it or not. It will end the life as you know it now. Think about it.

Hi, I dont really get wat most of you were talking about..
But I am not copiing da ppl who r sayin they wan2 hav a baby at 13 or 15 4 attension!

Hi im 13 n I wna baby!! All use r gna fink im childish n im too young bt trust me once u gt to no me tht will all change!!! Ask all ma m8s I no nearly everthing about how to cope with babies so im well prepared!! This may sound reli childish bt I still play with dolss n my mum bort me 1 which has hair n everythin I dnt treat them like plastic I treat them like real ones if I cnt hv a baby myself does eny1 no sum1 I cn babysit 4? Plz I lv babies I hv all da equipment moses basket pram nappies loadz clothes etc.. Me n ma m8s all think im redi bt I need sum advice lv kaz xxx

Jeez, I cant even read what you wrote!

Oh god this is so stupid...

Byt the way diamond.. I act immature and guess what? I'm a mod hahaha!

You post shows how immature you truely are. Just because you know how to take care of a baby physically, doesn't mean that you are ready to actually have a baby of your own. There is so much more involved than that. How are you going to support this baby? Are you going to depend on your parents for financial help? Are you going to get on welfare and make all of us taxpayers pay for you and your baby? Are you going to sell drugs or sell your body for money? These are all legit questions. If you answer yes to any of these then you are too immature to have a baby of your own. You may be physically able to have a baby, but you are far from being emotionally ready for a baby of your own. You have no idea what you're getting yourself into, but you do not realize it now and you probably won't realize it until it's too late. That poor baby that you have will have nothing and they will have you to thank for that. If you can't financially take care of yourself then you are not financially ready to try to take care a baby and I honestly doubt that any of you 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16 year olds are paying any rent on your own right now. Grow up and live your life before you decide to start popping out babies. You'll never get your youth back and you'll wish you hadn't screwed it up later down the road. I know what i'm talking about. You'll see one day that I was right and you were wrong. Its just sad that you'll have to pay for it for the rest of your life.

I can't even image how it would have been if I had a child when I was that young. I would have missed out on so many things growing up. I'm so grateful that I had my head screwed on straight and I got to live my life. I am 27 years old now and I just got married. My husband and I were just talking about whether or not we wanted to start a family now or wait. We are using our heads even now, because we know what kind of world we are living in and we're not sure that we want to bring an innocent baby into it. We want to make sure that when we do have a baby we will be able to give it everything that it wants or needs, not just what I can afford to give them at the time. I want my kids to not want for anything. I am also emotionally read to have a baby now, but I wasn't until recently. I surely wasn't when I was a teenager. Never would I have done something as stupid as gettting pregnant when I was that young. You better think about what your doing long and hard. Listen to what all these people are telling you. We have nothing to gain by telling you all of this stuff. We are just trying to help you so that you don't make the worst mistake of your life. Please listen to what we are saying. I swear to you that you will not regret it.

Hahaha was I starting anything? No! All I said was im a mod and I can act immature at times! Just cuz ur a mod doesnt mean ur superior over anyone and should act any other way. Ur made a mod by how u handle things, and well, obviously people thought I handled things pretty well..

Kthanxbye

Grow some pubes ya stupid little girl!

You lil young brats that r talking about you want kids you r just a kid your self am 18 and I dont want any but if god bless me with one I bet I can take care of my child even tho am 18 years old I still consider myself as a child but those who dont have a job, a car, no income, no roof over there head unless they r gettin it from they parents you better wake up and face the world. Am telling you the truth god know I didnt get a diploma from high school but you know one thing I finish school and I finished it from home you know how I did it because I have a good brain and I went all this way in high school I wasnt going to let it go down the drane yeah know I might be pregnant but who cares I have a place of my own I pay my own rent, and bills, I have away back and forth to were I need to go I moved out of my mother house when I was 16 years old because I want to face life I didnt want to be stuck on my mother for the rest of my life I work 2 jobs one from home and the other one at a clothing store so am well prepared if I am pregnant because I was out there for 3 years and I know how it is it is hard as hell my rent amount is 800.00 dollars and my bf makes 15.00 an hour so you young b****es that want a child if I was your mother I would put yall azzez out on your own and let you see how much it !@#^en cost in the world it is hard true enough and I make from home 10.00 and hours so if I am pregnant I have my shyt sit in life ok so I dont care you hatein young brats that want to say anything am going to leave all of my email addresses below ok so god please help these lil young bratttttttttttssss???????????????????????? ??????????????????? :d :twisted: :roll: :?: :?:



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Okay I wont even get started on what everyone else wrote...But are you aware that you have a 50% chance of getting a boy?? All you keep talking about is your "little girl" that is very imature. So if you get a boy will you just keep trying till you get your girl and screw the rest of your kids? It happens that no matter how hard people try they only get boys (or visa versa)...This just prooves how immature you are and should have a kid. Not to mention all the reasons you want to have a child are superficial, you obviously do not know what being a real parent consists of...A child isn't there to entertain you or be there for you or to be a real live barbie for you. You are there for your child, 24/7. You will never get a moment alone for you again. All your thoughts will consist on that childs well being and at 11 you can't provide them with the well being that they need. Plus shame on you for relying on your parents! Do you have no sence of pride at all?? You should want to be able to raise a child on your own without relying on mommy and daddy to do it. Wow what an example you are going to be for your kid. I mean it didn't even happen by misstake (you shouldn't be having sex at all at 11!!) not to mention I think it is illegal for a 14 year old to be having sexual relations with a 11 year old. I hope you are aware in your post you sound like selfish little bratt (which I am sure is what you are). Have a wonderful life...And please learn to spell, it's not "cool" or "hip" and none of the stars write like that...So grow up.

The male determines the babies sex.

>kimmeh
er, u r so jealous of me coz im like young and u, are probably like 15 and u wanna b my age.
And im gonna b 12 in like 9and a half months,so im not exactly young /immature am i??? .
I read dat if your like in ur 20s+ u hav a bigger chance of ur baby dieing b4 its born, so at least my baby will be alive!!
All the ppl who said iwaz immature ur babys gonna die, at least ill hav a living baby all u's r gonna hav a dead one..
So... I hav nout more 2 say,

>jaydynsmomi
u cannot hav a baby if ur 6yrs old b coz ur body iz not developed yet!!! B coz u woudnt even hav ur periods.


I just want a baby bcoz of the same reasons any adults would wanna want a baby so, like, stop hav ing age discrimination problems...


And stop b ing jalous.

Besides I dont need a car, ill just take da tube/bus.
Why r u all going on about how u arnt fit enouf 2 hav a baby if u dont hav a car, why is it dat important, u all no that I cant hav a car at my age omg u r all soooo jalous!!

Reading what you wrote has made me dizzy :shock:

this has to be a joke......I hope!

Going to have your mommy drive you to doctor appts.


You know after your baby is born you and your child both have to go to the doctor over & over for check up & babies shots.


You're 11, do you even have pubes on your editvagina? Keep your legs closed you uneducated child.