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Q: 11 And Want2 Hav a Baby.
asked by: crazy_chic on October 18th, 2005
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Hi I just turned 11!! I really wanna have a kid of my own so I wanna hav a baby my bf said he wants 1 too. He iz14.I know quite alot of 12 yr oldz who had a baby they r managing, I just started my periods a whileago so I sud b able to hav a baby now I really wanna baby girl I can dress her and feed her and everything!!!!! Plz giv me and my bf tips on getting preggy lik possisionsthanks my bf said he will marry me in the future and everything I am just so excited about this!!!! I am gonna hav so much fun with my baby !!!!!!
I no that somppl will say u wont get gud edcation if I hav a baby now bcoz imma teenage but that dosnt matter I can get edukation when im older!!! I cant wait to get pregnant its gonna be soooo exciting!!!:d
honestly my cousin waz lik u cant hav a kid coz ur young and ul lose everything but really, what can I possibly lose wat iz the worst thing thatll happen everysingle teendats hav a baby iz like so happy I want that too. There is nothing I can lose. Ok. Well, I gotta go to bed now but I will post on here w da good news when im pregnant !!!!!
Everyone shud hav a baby they r sooooo sweet!!!!!!!!!!!
I luv looking at all the prams I alreadw chose a pram I wanna get I havnt told ne1 but my bf and a friend about this decision I made coz they r adults and all adults eva say that u r too young thats all they eva say!!!!!
Well, ig2g now congrats 4 all the new mommyz here and I hope I kan b a mommy vvvvvvvvvvvvvvv soon to!!!!!!!!!1
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crazy_chic
replied on October 18th, 2005
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Oh and ill nemaeher alicia after alicia keys da singer but im still thinking about it!!!!!!!
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jk47
replied on October 18th, 2005
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No I think ur completely stupid, u just turned 11, no ur not a teenager yet and yes you are still a kid

you wont have no money to support the kid, and I think your still that same girl that said she wana have a baby when shes 13
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crazy_chic
replied on October 18th, 2005
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Well... My parents r happy2giv me money anditcannot cost more than 10grands a month and a 8 year old had a baby for her mom with her dads sprm and her moms eggs it waz on da new so so wat if a 10 yr old hav kids it is not hard u dont lose anything. That izall I wanna say.
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crazy_chic
replied on October 18th, 2005
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And no,iam not da same person as the person who posted dat she wanted 2 havababy at 13.
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chrissy721
replied on October 18th, 2005
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It would be illegal for an 8 year old to have a baby for her mother by her father.

That's reaaaally illegal, dangerous, irresponsible. The girl would have probably died giving birth. Her body hasn't even hit puberty yet. I don't care if it .Was on tv, it still wrong and immoral. For the parents to put a .Kid through something like that would be horrible and that child should be put with a family where she can be safe and cared for in a good way.

Yes you do need an education. You will need to support that baby emotionally and physically. If you had a baby now, you would have a really hard time getting back to education, you probably wouldn't get a job better than mcdonald's or something like that, which doesn't pay much, trust me I worked there. Babies need to see the doctor often at first, so there are alot of office bills, they need supplies. So what if your parents make 10 grand a week, which I doubt, but why would you want to live off of their money. Wouldn't that make you feel cheap?

Also your boyfriend at 14 should really know better. He knows what he'd be doing, maybe not completely, but he knows it would be wrong. If you don't believe that, why don't you try talking to your mom or dad, and telling them what your are planning to do and see what they have to say.

I don't mean to be rude or mean. I just want you to think your thoughts through. Babies need alot of care and nurturing. Some of that is free, and it also will cost alot of money. You have alot of time yet to grow up. There will be a time in your life when you are ready for a baby, but it's not now. If you want to be around babies you could babysit, or volunteer at the hospital, or volunteer at a daycare center. There's lots of things you can do to be near a baby, without ruining your body and hurting your life. Ask some of the girls on here, who have babies and are young how easy it is. They will tell you all you need to know. They made mistakes, and yes they can be happy with their baby, but they won't tell you it's a peice of cake.
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crazy_chic
replied on October 18th, 2005
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I want to have a baby I can keep 4eva and that is mine I wanna be amommy:( I dontjust wanna be around other ppls babyz, and yes I do think imready4this I fink thisiz my time I dont wanna hav one when im olderi want one right now and I amtotaly ready and I no that this is mytime to hav a baby.
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babyrae
replied on October 18th, 2005
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Oh god dont even get me started. Ur either really, really stupid and selfish and just.. Omg so edit selfish.. Or ur doing this for attention. And I hope to god its the second one. This is so stupid its not even funny. Iw ant to walk over there and smack u acrosss the face. Seriously. U dont know edit. Im not even gonna get all into it... Just urrgh
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ashleyharris
replied on October 18th, 2005
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You are so stupid.Thats all I hav got 2 say.
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mia7
replied on October 18th, 2005
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This is a joke!
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OaTmEaLfAiRy
replied on October 19th, 2005
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Someone Is Yankin' Your Chain!
First it started with a 15 year old, then a 13 year old, and now an 11 year old? Anybody seeing a trend here? This had better be a joke, or someone better punch this chick in the privates for me.
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emojde7
replied on October 19th, 2005
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Before you can be a mom, you need to learn how to not only speak english properly, but learn to spell. I think the only thing you have spelled correctly in any of the posts you've made is alicia keys. Grow up first and then consider children. Without a diploma from a high school, which at 11 you have not even close to earned yet, you can not even join the military let alone get a job. If you and your boyfriend do decide to reproduce I hope that for the child's sake your parents kick you out, take the baby, and make you learn what real life is. Welcome to the definition of unintelligence.
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BrianBaby
replied on October 19th, 2005
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Hun, you can't even spell right.

Questions:
how will you pay for your ob/gyn?
Who will take you to Dr. App'ts?
Where will you live?
Will you have access to a car??....Wait...Your only 11 nevermind
who will pay for your vitamins?
How will you pay for formula, diapers, clothes...Etc?


Hun, this is just ridiculous. Having a baby is exciting but not when your 11. Your just not ready. Are you willing to wake up every 3 hours or more to feed your child. What if they get sick?

There's way more to conisder than just dressing and feeding a baby.
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diamondsz
replied on October 19th, 2005
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I dont know why people get so frustrated on on teens having kids


all of great grandmothers had you before 17 as it was a law. The only thing is if you cant support it dont have it kids need more than love, they need a roof over their head and food and formula isnt cheap. I didnt finish school because I moved from place to place but I do have it now at 21 but the fact is schooling can be done later. I got pregnant when I was 19 but I had a place to live, money and someone to help and if you really think your bf is going to stay around I have friend who had kids at 14, 15 and 17 and the dads dont give a f%%k about their kids.

Im happy you want a kid but wait at least 2/3 years to make that decision your the same age as my sister and she still playing with toys I could never see this happen to her

alot of my friends are single moms and they tell me horror stories they have with the father and some being disowned by family with is disgusting.

In the end it is your choice but read up on it
www.Babycenter.Com
http://www.Childbirth.Org/
http://www.Teenpregnancy.Com/
http://lafemmebonita.Com/
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chrissy721
replied on October 19th, 2005
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Yea but my grandma wasn't 11....She was probably like 16 or 17 atleast past puberty.

Girls at 11 are supposed to be interested in learning how to make cookies, and getting the latest barbie doll, and doing normal 11 year old stuff.

My guess is that this little girl is seeing something she's not supposed to be seeing and it's a big influence on her and that's what's making her want to have a baby. I just hope she goes and atleast warns her parents what she's planning to do. Maybe they can talk some sense into her, because we won't be able to.
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jaydynsmomi
replied on October 19th, 2005
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Im 6 and want a kid! Im so with you! We could be preggy buddies!





Not! You edit your not a teenager! You cant even spell teenager for goodness sakes!


I have your ip address, and im reporting it to the authorities. :smile:
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diamondsz
replied on October 19th, 2005
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jaydynsmomi wrote:
im 6 and want a kid! Im so with you! We could be preggy buddies!

Not! You f*ng retard! Your not a teenager! You cant even spell teenager for goodness sakes!
I have your ip address, and im reporting it to the authorities. :smile:




in order for her to get ur ip address she would either have to be a moderator or use a incredibly good hack program which is (illegal) I wouldnt worry to much

i work in it/tech so I know whats possible and not possible

do what you please but read up on the info I put into last post I dont agree or disagree with your terms......................Some of my family have had kids your age but they live in another country please please read up better to be informed

i think you should enjoy your kid years before having a kid I really do if you want one young wait till at least 16 or 15
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jaydynsmomi
replied on October 19th, 2005
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And how do you know im not a moderator you dummy??
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jaydynsmomi
replied on October 19th, 2005
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81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150

your from northern ireland!

Thanxbye
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diamondsz
replied on October 19th, 2005
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jaydynsmomi wrote:
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150your from northern ireland!
Thanxbye




jaydynsmomi wrote:
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150
your from northern ireland!
Thanxbye


a moderator wouldnt be so immature

the two ips below are from two different places and modems or could be one company two separate name
modem-1396.Javan.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
modem-2710.Iguana.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
81.78.165.116
81.76.250.150

by the way im not from ireland lol far from it!!!
I hope ur not posting ur own ip that wouldnt be too smart cause some can hack it easily minus the fact it is dial
really smart and by the way cuase u didnt even get it right lol!!! You should go back to school they do teach it in school


c:\documents and settings\peps>ping 81.78.165.116

pinging 81.78.165.116 with 32 bytes of data:

request timed out.
Request timed out.
Request timed out.
Request timed out.

Ping statistics for 81.78.165.116:
packets: sent = 4, received = 0, lost = 4 (100% loss),

c:\documents and settings\peps>
c:\documents and settings\peps>nslookup 81.78.165.116

name: modem-1396.Javan.Dialup.Pol.Co.Uk
address: 81.78.165.116

remeber what comes around goes around if you did post someone elses ip like one of ur buddies you can and may be charged......................
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