Love is worth just about anything. I think that the solution to your problem would be for the two of you to get out of his momma's house. He can still help her pay the bills by sending her money. You two are old enough to live on your own. My husband and I are 19 and 20 and we lived with my aunt for a while before we got our own place. Things change when you live together alone. Do you not mind living with his mother?? Another thing you should do is tell him flat out how you are feeling..And if he doesn't seem to care, tell him you are leaving him, that's sure to get his attention!!


Good luck,
teresa

"now the body is not for sexual immorality but for the .Lord, and the .Lord for the body."
1 chorinthians 6:14

Nothing is worth the way your boyfriend is treating you. People who love each other does not treat each other that way. If he truely loved you he would want to be with you. He would miss you during the day while he was at work and be excited to see you when he got home from work. My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married only 4 months, but have lived together for about 8 years. We are just as in love with each other now as we were when we first got together. Both os us can't wait to get home every day from work just so we can see each other and be together. We love just being together at home. Doing nothing. Just being together. He would never talk to me or treat me that the way your boyfriend has treated you and I would never dream of treating him that way. I love him too much than to hurt him and he feels the same way about me. He doesn't want to do anything to hurt me or my feelings. It sounds like your boyfriend wants to live at home with his mommy because he's not ready to get out on his own. He's not ready for a real serious relationship. That's fine, but he needs to be honest with you so you can move on with your life the way you see fit. Do not let this man run over you. Stand your ground with him and tell him how your feeling and how he is making you feel when he does some of the things that he does to you. Speak up girl. If things do not change then tell him you are leaving him. If he really wants to be with you he will try to stop you and change his ways towards you. He will see that you are serious about what you are talking about. You have to show him that you mean business and that you're not just talking and threatening to leave him. Good luck to you! Keep us informed on the outcome.

Your relationship is not healthy. If he needs time to unwind after work (shower, eat) fine. But he should make time for you after that, and by not giving you a ride is just selfish and rude.

From what you described, it will not be long til you are not satisfied, probably already you are not, you just have not admitted to yourself. Look inside, see how you really feel. If he is worth it to you, talk to him, demand respect. If he is not...............????? Follow you heart.