Teen Pregnancy Forum - Help.. Please.

Okay. So i'm 16. Annnddddd.. My last period was around the 22nd of sept. (i dont exactly remember when) for the last 23 weekends... Oct. 1, 8, and 15 i've had sex with my boyfriend... Unprotected. (yeah, not a good idea.. I know.)

so I didnt exactly think about anything utnil my friend brought up the fact I might be pregnant.. And now i'm freaking out.
I should have gotten my period yesterday.. So it's only 1 day late.. And I know it's not a big deal yet.

My boyfirend said he's positive.. Like 110% sure that nothing happened and that he didn't cum while we were having sex because he can always tell when it's going to happen.. And plus we didn't have sex for that long anyways because we kept having to do stuff or my momw ould be there to pick me up..

So I dont know.
I mean, i'm going to wait it out and if I don't get my period i'm going to take 3 diff tests on saturday.. Then depending on those results get a blood test done.

Any suggestions or anything?
I mostly had to get this out.. Kinda just talk to people about it. I made a stupid decision by not using protection and I hope to god i'm not pregnant because I can't afford that right now. I'm planning on gettin a full scholarship for lax to college and everything and I just can't be right now.

Do you guys think I am?
Please talk to me about this..

Replies(7)

iluhvmiibabi_x3

replied on October 18th, 2005

New User

I know how you feel .. I`m kinda in the same situation! If I was you, I would do what you`re already planning on doing, just wait til this weekend to take a pg test .. But when you take `em .. Make sure you take one in the morning before you ever drink or eat anything. It`s the best to always do `em in the morning, they`re a lil more accurate because there`s nothing there to throw the hormone levels off! Good luck hunn! :)

~baby~g~

replied on October 18th, 2005

Experienced User

Omg!

Wow, i'm the the same exact situation as you, I was supposed to start my period yesterday to but I haven't yet. I've been cramping, but nothing has happened yet. Mine could be all the stress going on in my life though. I had sex with my bf on the 24th of sept. And he didn't cum or anything buut when we had sex on the 15th of october I think he did cum a lil everytime, we had sex 3 times, but then again I don't think having sex on the 15th woulld affect anything right now, but I could be wrong. I'm going to give it a week or 2 & then i'll take a test if it doesn't start.

Buuttt i'm here if you need anyone to talk to!!

mia7

replied on October 18th, 2005

Experienced User

Be careful. I got pregnant off of pre-cum. It happens more often than you think.

pinkprep555

replied on October 18th, 2005

New User

Thank you everyone! It's all just really scary for me right now.. And I know it's probably nothing to worry about until atleast the weekend.. But my friend creeped me out and now it's all I can think about. My boyfriend and I have been talking and he said that no matter what happens, he's going to take care of me.. I'm just terrified because I know that if I am my life is going to just die. My family will basically disown me and kick me out of the house, I won't be able to play lacrosse, I won't be able to go back to school (i go to an all girl catholic high school... Yeah.Wouldn't fly.) and everything would just be horrrible. So, he said that worst comes to worst and that is what happens then his grandmother in ny would take us in.
I'm talking to him now and he says that if it does happen, whiich it probably won't.. Then he will be the one to tell my parents.. He will be the one to take responsibility and everything.

But here's the thing.. Today i've been like cramping up and everything, so i'm hoping its like "pre-cramps" before my period..

Please pray for me everyone..
&& thank you for your help.

If anyone else has any more imput.. Please.. Tell me. I need as much help as I can get. It's a tough time right now.

pinkprep555

replied on October 19th, 2005

New User

Ahhh.
No period yet. :(
my boyfriend is going to take me to planned parenthood saturdya if nothing happens and im going to get a blood test done.
I'm so nervous tho... I dont know what to do..
I was tlaking to my best friend last night and he said he thinks my period is goinfg to come soon because I was in a bad mood and I wasnt feeling good.. And I was craving chocolate covered pretzels (and apparently craving salt and chocolate is a sign of periods coming?)
but id ont know. Im really nervous.

herexwexgoxagain

replied on October 22nd, 2005

New User

pinkprep555 wrote:

ahhh.
No period yet. :(
my boyfriend is going to take me to planned parenthood saturdya if nothing happens and im going to get a blood test done.
I'm so nervous tho... I dont know what to do..

I was tlaking to my best friend last night and he said he thinks my period is goinfg to come soon because I was in a bad mood and I wasnt feeling good.. And I was craving chocolate covered pretzels (and apparently craving salt and chocolate is a sign of periods coming?)
but id ont know. Im really nervous.

well, anything is possible. I know how you're feeling in this situation, i'm sure most of us in this forum felt a little stressed out or scared before we found out, but just chill out for now and take a test. Once you figure out whether or not you're pregnant, you'll be able to move on from there. I know you certainly don't need the stress and emotional roller coaster of becoming a pregnant teen, but a lot of us have been there, and we've found out that it wasn't the end of our world. You don't want to be pregnant, that's understandable (hell, I denied being pregnant to myself for a while!) but like I said, if it does turn out that you are, i"m always here and I would love to hear from you. And even if you find that you aren't pregnant, all of us are still here. Best of luck.

hope to hear from you soon!

--sarah

pinkprep555

replied on October 22nd, 2005

New User

Thanks again everyone.
Today I took an ept and it said not pregnant. :)
i was going to go to pph and get a blood test, but the time I got there, they said walk in hours stopped at 1 and I was there with my boyfriend at 1:30.

I feel a lot better.. But i'm still a little skeptical considering I still haven't gotten my period.. :-/

but I do have amazing friends who have been by my side the entire time. My frikends mom offered to take me if I need her to (she's possibly the coolest/best mom in the world) and my friends have just been here 10000000% of the way.. Calling/texting/iming/everything. I love my friendsss.

<333. I'll make sure to keep all of you posted. Thanks so much!

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