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Q: How Can I Open Up to Him?
asked by: overlyworried on October 18th, 2005
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 4 years. He isn't shy to do anything around me but I have a problem doing stuff around him. He likes to dance and sing and I do, too ... I just can't around him. Okay, "can't" is probably the wrong word. I just have a hard time doing it in front of him. It's like I "can't" talk myself into doing it because of what he may think.

I would really like to not have anything holding me back from dancing/singing in front of him. Does anybody have any advice or suggestions that can help me be more open in front of him. Anything would be greatly appreciated :-)
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Loki_
replied on October 25th, 2005
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Well, maybe if you like to sing and dance. Maybe you two should hit a karaoke bar and have a few drinks. It'll give you a chance to just chill out, or have a song and a go at it, and 2) backup: blame it on the alcohol later.
Karaoke's always fun, just grab a booth (if you're scared to do it in public) and if not, you can always just borrow a dvd from some video store with like karaoke discs somewhere. (they must have it somewhere in town).

Nothing wrong with dancing either. Just dance. Whether it's alone or together. Go to a club sometime. Maybe just let him teach you how to (even if you already know), makes him maybe feel as though his "good-dancer"-ness coming out and he is teaching you in the process.
Break the ice a bit.
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