My b/f proposed to me like 4 months ago. I love him and I know that we arent rushing in to anything but I cant figure out a way to tell my mother. She thinks that im being silly by even staying with him because he lives in california. I'll admit it is hard for me because he's so far but I trust him and I wouldnt ask him to drop out of college just because I want to be close to him. We've already decided that i'm going to move in with him and i'm going to start college out there next year. I just dont want him to come here for thanksgiving and then have to look at my mom and I haent been able to tell her. He wants to tell her but because im so young she can make our lives miserable. I want to graduate from high school here with all my friends. I dont know what to do. Can anyone give me some advice? How can I tell her? Should I just wait until he's here?