Relationships and Marriage Forum - I Left Tx For My Husband....i Am Lonely And I Want a Baby!

My husband and I thought we were pregnant. I mean I had the classic signs....Like sore breast, bloating, gas, feeling like I was going to throw up and being tired. Well, last night I went to the bath room....I started my period...I was so sad!

We werent really trying... We just said if it happens it happens! But I want to try...I want a family here...I left all my friends and family in tx to live in nc for my husband. I am so lonely....I love my husband and he is here for me. But I want to start my own family..... But my husband isnt so sure about it....I mean he wants one...He thinks we arent ready. But he says if it happens it happens.

I don't work...I just need something to look forward to...I want a baby!!!

How can I relax and just let it happen!? I know I sound like an fool~

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wife2jason_mom2ryley

replied on October 17th, 2005

Experienced User

No, you don't sound like an fool. Obviously your hubby does want a baby, or he would be wearing a condom during sex. What makes him say that you guys aren't ready? The main thing you shouldn't do is make sex a chore. When you have sex don't think about gettign preggy the whole time. You will get pregnant when the time comes. Untill then, read up on pregnancy and babies...Just to prepare you for the furtur. You already have alot to look forward to....Trying for the baby is half the fun!! Good luck!!!

Teresa

"for .God did not give us the spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind."
2nd timothy chap 1 verse 7

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