(gemstone)
i am so sorry for your terrible loss!
9 days ago is so very recent, you must be in shock at the moment.
Things may be up and down and completely out of whack for quite a while. For me, its been 8 months and I still feel it everyday. You will have good moments too.
Rationally we know that these things do happen in ones life and yet it seems incomprehensable that its happened in ours or that someone as close as our parent can be gone. It is just unbelievable!
It's so good that you have some support because I think that talking with people and knowing that others have experienced this to some degree or another can be helpful. Especially in not feeling so alone or that its somehow unnatural (though it feels like it). It's also good to be able to express yourself and not feel like you have to say you are "doing alright" all the time to people who politely ask how you are. Because even if you are handling it all very well, being strong and going through it normally, it is of course very hard and awfully sad, especially in the beginning and after the inital flurry of activity and people subsides.
Please take good care of yourself, nourish yourself, treat yourself (when possible) to the things that can realx you and bring you comfort.
All the very best to you !!!!!!