Hello, my name is tammy. I am trying to become pregnant also. I had to have a d&c in august. I will be 30 in july. My doctor said the old you are the harder it will become. I am so sorry you have been trying and you are not pregnant yet. I know the longing that you feel........

Best wishes

t~

Im sorry to hear that you have had no luck on the baby side to,it makes me angry some times that its like shelling peas for some women and im trying everything to get pregnant,iv even tried giveing up on the idea hopeing that might work but no such luck.Why do our bodies have to be so difficult?Im going back to my docters next month to see what else he can do for me.Keep in touch and let me know how things go for you.

Sara

Hi sara,

it is really hard to understand why? I am usually a really happy, positive person and for the last couple of months I have been really angry and sad. My sister finally asked me what was wrong and I told her I am tired of smiling when I don't feel like it. My sister is 6 months pregnant now. I am happy for her but it is hard for me. I was hoping I was pregnant this month but I started my period (i think) yesterday. I had a d&c in auguat so my perionds are really wierd and are not back on track yet. I wish you all the best.....................

~~~~~~baby dust~~~~~~~~

t~

Its hard when you see other women pregnant you feel happy for them but you get so angry inside.Iv come to the point now that I don,t watch baby programs gets me to upset then I start to think a lot,every month when I start a period I just think here we go again,but im not going to give up and let it beat me and you should do the same just keep up with the fun of trying im sex mad lol lol so just think to your self more the better.I do hope for you and hope that you have a lucky month that you fall pregnant.


Sara

My name is Sara too (spelled the exact same way). My husband and I have been ttc for about 7 months with no luck. My husband found out that his sperm count is low, but it is still possible for me to get pregnant. I'm ovulating and each month we think I'm pregnant...just to get let down once my period starts. It is hard to see EVERYONE around you with kids and you feel like the only person without any. I'm 31 and my husband is 36. We wanted to wait until we were married but now I'm wishing we started sooner. I find myself crying in the middle of the day just thinking about it because it is very frustrating and such a let down. My husband is going to the fertility center for treatment next week and hopefully that will solve our problem. If not I'm not sure how this will happen. I just wanted to share my feeling and thoughts because you are not alone. Keep trying and stay positive...that's what I'm (trying) to do.

it took me 1 and 1/2 yrs to get pregnant. i finally am and i didnt use any drugs or anything. this is my second child my first is almost 4 yrs. im having alot of difficultys this time around.

Both my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the past six months. We actually thought we were pregnant this month since I was exhibiting a few symptoms. But long and behold, my period came to visit me yesterday and our disappointment began. What is most frustrating is that all of our friends are getting pregnant in their first try. I feel like such a failure as a woman. What are we doing wrong?