Hey
labor isnt all that bad, I went natural when I had my daughter at 20 and I plan on having #2 natural unless I need a c-section. I have a friends who is semi parylzed from epidural and my mom and my friends mom suffer from herniated disks.
Epidural is not a medication it is where they place the needle (epidural space) and the stuff you get in it is similar to morpheine
the contractions hurt but if you can focus your mind and walk around its not as bad it is worse than period cramp......But in bewteen contrations its pain free like going for a break.>>>>the worst part is when they're not even a minute apart in that case I suggest getting a shot of demerol I think im going to do it this time around this stage lasted only 30 minutes for me but once u get to pushing stage its like the contrations somewhat fade and feels so good.
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honestly wait as long as possible for pain meds I found the crowning quite easy and I had three stitches after ask not to be cut can cause more issues after>>>>unless they really need too
remeber when you see the baby all the pain goes away a feeling of pride, love and power overwhelm u but its different for each person