Hi! I'm brand new here and loving the boards. :) *ahem* this is probably going to sound naive, but here goes: i'm a 17-year-old girl. I have not had sex, but I have engaged in mutual masturbation with my boyfriend on numerous occasions. I do not feel any pain from it and i've felt him stimulate my cervix. (which is wooooonderful) i've also been masturbating since I was 13.

I'm just wondering... Is there any way my hymen could still be intact? I am guessing no, considering my boyfriend can stimulate me very deeply without pain. I know basically everything there is to know about my body except this, I guess because I don't know what it's like to have an intact hymen since (i think) I broke it at a young age (but definitely never felt when I did). :-/

i am curious because I know the main reason women bleed during first intercourse is because their hymen is ruptured. I wonder if my first intercourse will be as painful as those of those women or if I will bleed. I know it will at least be uncomforatble because I am tight. Can someone tell me what to expect? I would appreciate any feedback, be it advice or no. :) thanks, bye.