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Q: 15 And Want a Baby...
asked by: ellie_pl on October 14th, 2005
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Any guys wanna help?
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niknakota
replied on October 14th, 2005
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Hun you're in for a rude awakening!!! Plus what is with the "any guys want to help" I hope your just refereing to women to help you with knowledge not asking if guys want to help get you pregnant!!!!

Also too "kiddo" I read some post you have and in june you said you were pregnant. What did you abort it now want one. Hunny dont be a keg peg. Do it right. I almost can put my life on it that the guy who gets you pregnant wont be around for long.... You'll have to fight him and its a long battle!! Dont take my hard earned money just because you want to play house hun!
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ellie_pl
replied on October 14th, 2005
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Hmph
Had a miscarrige thank you, so at 1st I was scared right, but once I got used to the idea and my parents cooled down from the news and we had a plan worked I sarted to get excited then, I miscarried....Life just sucks like that....So now I want a baby...
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ellie_pl
replied on October 14th, 2005
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What No Flaming Pms
Suprised at peeps civilaty here...Lol
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ellie_pl
replied on October 14th, 2005
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What No Flaming Pms
Suprised at peeps civilaty here...Lol
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niknakota
replied on October 17th, 2005
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I was not really trying to be rude I am trying to make you realize that "everything happens for a reason"
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agb131
replied on October 17th, 2005
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She is right..Everything happens for a reason!
But you are really young....You to look forward to being a teenager...Graduating...Going to college and getting a degree and meeting the perfected husband...So you can support your children...
Cuz honey life is hard without a degree in college and a supporting husband.
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Lilypad
replied on October 25th, 2005
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You are too young to start a family. You have so much time for that. Enjoy being young. Start babysitting.
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busymomofthree
replied on October 26th, 2005
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I'm still stuck on 'any guys wana help' what do you mean by that?
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ellie_pl
replied on October 26th, 2005
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*sighs*
What do you think it means? Use your brain....Please....
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michelle1981
replied on October 26th, 2005
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Re: *sighs*
ellie_pl wrote:
what do you think it means? Use your brain....Please....


you're telling "us" to use our brains, yet you are asking for guys to impregnate you...Wow...Stay in school!
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Lilypad
replied on October 27th, 2005
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Its not like you dont have many many years to have children, why would you want to have a baby with just anyone at the age of 15????
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SadMommy
replied on November 3rd, 2005
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I was just wondering what happened with ellie_pl???
Most time the reason for a young girl to want to have a baby is the sad fact that they are missing something in them selves and think this will fulfill all there dreams. I was just wanting to talk to you more about why you feel this way?

I'm here if you want to talk.........

Tammy
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synnical
replied on December 2nd, 2005
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Wow
Why in the world would you want a child at the age of 15? If you are still in school, your going to miss out on things like homecoming and prom. Also, think of all the baby fat you will have after giving birth. Stretch marks, things of that nature. Who is going to pay for the diapers and daycare when you are off trying to have fun with your wasted life? Sweetie, trust me when I tell you that you will not make it in the real world as a drop out or even a graduate. Today you need a college education to get a good paying job. If your just looking for some jerk to "knock you up", think about what kind of diseases he would have or the fact that he won't be there to help you. Court battles and money worries. If you got pregnant now, you are wasting a precious part of your life. You do not know it yet because you are 15. When you hit 30, look back on it and I promise you, I promise! That you will regret. You might love that child, but your not doing anything more than bringing a child into the world with a shitty outlook on it's life. I hope you "wake up". Your miscarriage was clearly a sign saying wait. If I were you I would heed that warning.
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xnaomix
replied on December 2nd, 2005
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Wow u didnt tell me that ellie..

After all the time iv been speaking to you lol
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texasshanna13
replied on December 2nd, 2005
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Okay im 19 (20 in april) and I also wanted a child at 17 but i'm not trying to preach at all, take your time! I got married at 18 b/c I wanted a family and I ended up marring the wrong guy. Luckly I didnt get pregnant. I meet my new husband some time back and made sure I was postiive that this was the man I wanted to start a family with. It didnt seem to take any time at all to get pregnant with him. But realisticly look at everything before you jump into something like do you have a high school education? Do you want to go to college? What kind of job skills do you have that you can do to support you, a husband, and a child. A child is such a huge responsiablity expecially at 15. I mean I was on active duty in the army which is a good steady pay check, health insurance for me and any dependents, but mentally ( even though I could go to war) I wasn't ready for a child. And I know that now days mothers and fathers dont always stay together but wouldnt you wanna be positive that hopefully either by being together or not the father would be in your childs life? Some random fresh relationship doesnt always bring that sercuity. Im not judging you in any way becuase for all I know you can be a very very smart, mature, working woman at 15. But for advice sake, take a step back and make sure that atleast 5 out of your 6 ducks are in a row. Also what about health insurance for you and ur child? I mean are you gonna rely on the government and take my hard earned tax dollars to take care of two children meaning you and the baby!? Your parents were supportive because it had already happened but if they find out you went out again and got pregnant they will flip. You are a child still and so am I but i'm married and not relying on my parents to take care of me and a child! Please please wait its so worth it.
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Lilypad
replied on December 4th, 2005
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This is probably yet another fake post.... :roll:
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solar001
replied on December 6th, 2005
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Re: 15 And Want a Baby...
ellie_pl wrote:
any guys wanna help?


don't treat yourself like trash hun. What kind of life will your baby have with a father who was "just trying to help" and a mother who posted an ad at 15? There's a reason why babies are born from a man and a woman, because they need a mother and a father!

Wake up dear, you're 15. I understand that you're hurting from a miscarriage, but everything happens for a reason. You will have your chance to have a baby later in life. I'm not saying that a baby will keep you from going to prom or ruin your body or your life, I totally disagree with that notion, but I do believe that children have the right to be brought up by two mature, stable, loving and educated parents who are not 15 year-olds looking to fill in a gap.
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Lilypad
replied on December 6th, 2005
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I think that you should get some counseling if you seriosly think that you want to get pregnant at 15...By any random sperm donor no less! If you were older and able to support yourself, with a job, a car and a home I would applaud you to want to be a single mother but at the young age of 15 this should be the furthest thing from your mind...Enjoy your youth. You have plenty of time to make babies!!
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brunettebabe17
replied on December 11th, 2005
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Haha
Well if anyone noticed..Ellie made a post a few months ago stating she wwas pregnant..And now she is posting furrums saying she is a virgin and wants to have sex..This girl is just on here playing games..And everyone giving her advice when she is lying through her teeth on every post..The kid needs to get a life and get ral..Shes a hipacrit :roll: if thats how you spell it lol :?:
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