I have been dating a married woman for seven months. We are together continously such as during lunch at work, after work until 8 or 10pm at night and on the weekends. Sometimes we go out of town together and she tells her husband she is leaving for work reasons. Sometimes I am with her, her husband and family on the weekends. Her husband must know but he never asks. She says they have not had sex for 6mths. There is never affection between them while I am around. I want to be with her and although we are together continously, I am not happy. She is telling me to wait until january for her to arrange things as her husband has never been bad to her...He just doesn't give her the love and support. I have told her I would wait. I am afraid that january will become february etc. When we talk about it, often she tells me not to pressure her. I believe she loves me but unless her husband changes and is different with her I am not sure she will be able to leave him even if she is happier with me. What do I do? I am afraid to give her an ultimatum. Maybe I just need to wait for january since I told her I would. Please help me.