Hey well its me illusionsmamma or claudia however you prefer well i;ve away alittle busy looking for a new job cause this one sux well you know I was wondering or asking myself where did you girls meet your boy friends babies daddys hubbys etc.. Well hope to hear fom you soon cause it seems dead around here!! Well love ya and take care of your little bundles and bellys and bootys oops
Hey! I missed you in here! I was wondering where you where!
Well I met jose in arizona. I have alot of family out there and I was there for a quincenera. So me and my cousins were there all early so we ate first! Lol, then we went outside to talk to family and stuff and when I went back in I saw him sitting there and he was smiling at me. He had a cute smile! So I was all blushing and I went to sit down. All shy! And then my cousins husband introduced us to him. He was like "this is my nephew jose" and then I was like "hi im nicole" and we shook hands, and I was like "whats your name again?"and hes all "jose, and you?" and im all "nicole" and we shook hands again, like nerds! Lol. So he was like "you have to dance with me" and I was like "um ok" so we danced and I was all blushing, because I was shy! Lol so then I went to sit with my mom and she was like "see I want you to marry a guy like him! Not those homies, tell the guy you were dancing with I want him to marry you!" and I was like whatever!!! But then we danced and he kissed me and then I was dancing with alex his uncle whos 27 and he came and was like "hey man your dancing with my girlfriend" and I was like "girlfriend who?" and they meant me! Lol and alex was like "oh im sorry, I didnt see chain on her!" and we were laughing so then I had to leave! And we went to drop off my uncle at this house and he was there! So he ran to me and gave me a kiss and was like dont leave! Cuz I was heading home to cali, and I was like sorry buddy, im gone. So we exchanged numbers and we called eachother everyday until he asked me to marry him!
Well thats how we met, sorry so long! What about you? I have to go, I have to take my mom to lunch! Ill be back
Well i'm doing fine so hey jen your hubs has never worked? Why? Is he disabled you take care of the fam on your own wow good luck well I met my boy in the same apartments I used to live in, my apartment was downstairs and his was right infront of mine but upstairs well anyhow it was the summer of 2000 and her in vegas is so hot wow like 110 so I would always go swimming and that one specific date I went and came out and it was the first time I had ever seen him he was in his window smoking a cigarrete and I was in my room changing when I saw him looking down at me I was so mad and was basically cussing at him and made a big deal well so one day I was outside of my door step and I had seen him walk out his house and asked him hey why the hell are you looking through my window what is your problem man so he said "why cant i"? So that got me furious and then started seeing him more and more and talking and hanging out with him and my bro met him and bacame good friends and we were like the three musketeers going everywhere together and let me just say it never came to a formal "do you want to go out with me" actually as a matter a fact I am going to ask to ask me out tonight and we have been together ever since. Sorry so long hey nikki did you have a big wedding or more of a formal family thing and I love quinceneras I had one and it was like a dream cinderella type of thing. Oh by the way my apartment burned and he was trying to rescue me trying to be superman but we werent even home (it was a short circuit fire)and me and my brother were staying with him because we didnt have a place to live so thats when the dirty stuff happend.
Lol, as I was reading jens post, that song by whitney houston was playing in the backround..."i dont have nothing...If I dont have you!" I dont know what its called but it fit! Lol
oh claudia, no I had a stupid court thing.
but for our one year, we are having a big thing to renew our vows! Then I get to be cinderella! My gown is $600 so im saving for that. And its gonna be just family and stuff, mabye more! Either that or my dream is to get married in vegas!!!!! At the mandalay bay or the venitian, im not sure yet, but the mandalay has the best pool, I saw it on the travel channel! Lol. I told them all I want is my gown! I dont care if I had a cake or guests, I dont care if jose doesnt show! Lol I just want my gown! Lol. But I cant wait for it.
Jen I didnt know you did 69 that quick with mike! Lol, I still havent done anything like that and im 20 and married! Lol
claudia thats funny how you cussed him out. I would have done the same! Well no one has watched me change but if someone did I would have usually called my dad to beat him up! Lol. I miss my dad.
I met my boyfriend mike (nearly 21) 2 years & seven months ago in a supermarket where he was working! I thort he was cute so I gave his manager my number 2 give him! And he texted me that night & I met him the next day after church! Every1 laughs at that story but hey,its different 2 the usual 'i met him in a night club'! We spent a lot of time 2gether & after 6 days, he told me he loved me while we were watching an arnold schwarzanegger (cant spell it!!!!!) film! How romantic.......!
Wow nikki-u saving up 4 a gr8 gown! I wanna c a pic.Ive got ics of the dresses I like on my comp! (sad I know!) r u gonna have a proper church wedding?
Hey nikki well I think the venetian is nicer wow its so much like venetia not that i've been there or anything but it has the little boats and you ride while the man lattleling sings italian music wooaaw so romantic well hope you have a god time on getting married let me ask you how long in total married and dating have you been with jose? Has he or you changed a bit as the time goes by has he commented on that ;how about this one bad habits what do you girls think is the worst habit of your mate that just kills the living s**t out of you!!!
Hey liz! Yes I want a nice church wedding! Its what I wanted! Either that or vegas! But I things its going to be a church one. But this what what I was also thinking. In july towards the end, have it on the beach, and have my pastor marry us, we will have guests and stuff, then have a reception nearby. I dont know, I have so many ideas!!! But I do want something other than a boring court!
well we dated for about 3 months before he proposed! Lol I was like oh my gosh already!!! But yeah, then weve been married (by a dumb court) for 7 1/2 months. I dont even consider the court real, its not what I wanted so I dont care for it. I was happ to be with jose yeah, but I just think courts are for divorces not marriages! And yes jose has changed!!! Lol. Not too much. He's still a big dork. He's not too bossy, he gives me all his money, he asks permission for everything. The only thing he changed is that he stands up to me more, when before it was "what I say goes" it still is that way, but he tries to have his way too sometimes. The thing that bothers me sooooooo muuuuchhhh is *he has no manners!!!* at all!!!!! I hate it!!! He eats with mouth open, talks with his mouth full, and sneezes and doesnt cover his mouth!!!! And the worst for me, is he licks his fingers when hes eating!!! I cringe when I see that!!! I am constantly correcting him on it! Nobody ever taught him!!! I hate thinking about it. I dont like it. I cant stand it! Lol
he says ive changed because im bossy, I shout and im violent. Im not really that bad. But those things bug me so I yell. I mean how many times do I need to correct him on that!!
Other than that we are very affectionate still. We hug and cuddle, and when we go out we hold hands and he always holds my purse. He sleeps hugging me and kisses me all the time. He texts me saying how much he loves me and calls me on his break to say "i love u".
He still drinks sometimes but its an ongoing battle for him to stop. I let him have maybe 3 beers a week and thats it. Hes like my kid, and I take care of him, even when we fight but thats normal. I do wish I get the venitian, its so pretty, id probably cry renewing the vows! I never did and now when I see weddings I want, and I see the love, I cry! Lol