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Q: Question of Sex

asked by: TysonH on October 10th, 2005

Experienced User

Ok ladies..I am 19 and male. Sorry..I know this is a female forum, but I have a question for u all..And even for the men that read this as well.
Ok...My girlfriend and I have had sex a few times now. We've been dating for about 6 months. Now don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex..Especially listening to her. However, I am still kind of having mixed feelings afterwards. She still lives with her mom..And I live with my parents. We both have good relationships with them. I guess I feel like i'm hiding it from my parents, and it feels like a bad thing, but it shouldn't be. Also, I would have liked to wait till marriage to have sex with her..But ya know. ..When the mood is there, it's there. And we are in love..It's not a fooling around, best friend thing. And I find myself comparing our relationship to others..As in how long it took for others to have sex or fool around. Like my best friend is dating a girl for about 3 years now..And they haven't had sex..I think that's neat..But I just have mixed feelings I guess..Is this normal!!? Ne comments would be appreciated!!!Thanks!!

Also, one more question..For u woman that have had sex before ur lovedo n...Did the men in ur previous relationships make u feel more aggressive in ur current relationship?...A better way of asking is..Do u feel they had an influence on ur sex life?.. I just don't like to think my g/f's ex's had an affect on her "horny" personality ya know..

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Tylanas

replied on October 10th, 2005

Especially eHealthy

Well, i'm going to say that it took my bf and I 9 months before we had sex, and I was a virgin, so he introduced me to the world of sex, so to say!

Having sexual experiences with previous partners can make a person more comfortable with their body and more willing to engage in sexual activity, because they have fewer inhibitions about this supposedly "taboo" behavior. I think this unfortunately means that yes, her previous boyfriends may have influenced how she now feels comfortable having sex with you. That's not a bad thing; that's how people are; that's what people do! Don't feel jealous of her previous relationships, remember that she is with you, now.

I'm glad to hear that you are having sex in conjunction to being in love; I believe that this is most important when being sexual with someone!

Just a question, how old are you two?

TysonH

replied on October 11th, 2005

Experienced User

I'm 19..Currently in my 2nd year of college..She's 18..Finishing her senior year. I plan to transfer to a university..And she wants to be as close to me as possible.
For me, I didn't really want those guys to have that influence on her ya know..Cuz I dont' want to think of them as to having an affect on my girlfriends personality. I just dont' want to think that when she's horny, it's because they had that affect ya know? Maybe it's just me, but that's the best I can explain it.. Thansk for the reply!!

RGLwantababy

replied on October 11th, 2005

New User

? of Sex

I really don't think that ur girlfriends ex had anything to do with her being horny. I have a sex drive that is out of this world and my boyfriend can not even keep up with me. So I am forced to contain myself. My ex use to like to have sex a lot but so did I then as well. And my current boyfriend and I have sex a lot as well but neither could ever keep up with me. My mom said that she thinks that my sister and myself have high sex drives because she has always had one as well as her sisters. So, it could just run in her family same as mine. :d

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