Is this normal? For some people, yes. But that doesn't justify anything. Unfortunately physical attraction is a strong part of our relationships in our world---especially being from a big city like toronto. What you need to find out is why he is not sexually attracted to you anymore.. Is it appearance, or that he doesn't enjoy the sexual experiences. You both need to do your job to fulfill each other's needs. Also, if he's not fulfilling his sexual desires with you, where is he doing it? Masturbation?

Justin

I have asked him why, and he says that he doesnt know why.
I also asked if its me, or him? And he said mostly likely him. But i'm not sure if he's just saying this to be nice.

I'm not sure how he fullfills himself. I think he just doesnt do anything. Or we have sex sometimes, but I think he only wants it because he hasnt had it in awhile, not because I turned him on.

At 19....I wanted to have sex with any woman I could find. I would suspect something else. It isn't your fault. In any event, without sex it is extremely difficult for a relationship to survive.....Even with love. Maybe he is wanting to let you go but doesn't know how to do it.

I asked if he wanted to break up, but he said he didnt, wants to be together , and still loves me
so I duno?

Even though he's giving you the 'i don't know why' you really should sit down and have a chat with him. Perhaps try something new in your sex life. Relationships go through phases in any form whether it's sexually, physically, etc.
Experiment a little and talk to him.


I know it's troubling but the fact he loves you is great. Sex is good agreed, but the fact he still loves you is what is holding you together.

Good luck

dump him. Move on.