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Q: He's Not Attracted to Me Any More
asked by: bebe1234 on October 10th, 2005
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. We actually just had our 1 year anniversary. We're both 19.

He hasnt been horny at all lately, and I asked him about it.
He said that he's not sexually attracted to me anymore, but he still loves me. And he has been this way for the past month.

I don't know what to do about it. Help!
Is this normal?
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Joey9725
replied on October 22nd, 2005
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Hi,

this must be a scary thing for you! What I think is you and your boyfriend should go see a doctor together and talk about what the problem is, because I think that maybe ur boyfriend may have a bit of a medical problem with sexual things but he may. I think you both should go and see a doctor.
I hope this helps
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nancy1
replied on October 22nd, 2005
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I don't think that its can be surely be said that your boyfriend has a medical problem. These sorts of problems are generally in the mind. Maybe you don't look hot to him and your dress and attitude looks cold to him or maybe you have taken him for granted(or at least he thinks so). Try to spice up things by some change in your dressing and a warm attitude towards him and see if this helps.
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mermadem
replied on October 24th, 2005
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I've been experiencing the same issue with my live in boyfriend of 3 years. We maybe have sex once a month. I have made such a big issue of it that he said, "i'm pressuring him too much to even want to do it." also we've been fighting alot and he says when i'm being a beotch he doesn't feel like having sex with me at all. I'm 29 and it is starting to make me get very insecure. :(
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Tony Williams
replied on October 30th, 2005
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Ouch, that's bad.

Has he kissed you?

Try not making him feel though he has to give you sex to make you happy (not sure if you are)

like that person before said, go seek a sex therpist.
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