This is a sensitive question. My friend is in this position and would appreciate your opinions...
Liz
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BCR2005
replied on October 17th, 2005
New User
Probably, assuming I knew about it.
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JEV
replied on February 23rd, 2006
New User
I would definately go to the funeral, and if you ended on bad terms. This is your way to make the peace with your ex.
But if you were still good friends when you split up, then you owe it as a friend to go to the funeral to pay your respects
another way of thinking of it is : " would you want her at your funeral if it was the other way around?"
hope this helps?
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w0rldd0minat0r
replied on February 28th, 2006
Experienced User
Most definately, if u think he'd like you to be there go tell ur partner if he needs to know im sure the person who has died will appreciate it and it shouldnt be such a big problem gl
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Tasha114
replied on February 28th, 2006
New User
I agree. Even though an ex is an ex,friends or not you should go. You still once had a relationship with this person,admired this person,shared things. I think that is a kind of special situation. It's still important because bad or not that person was a part of your life and will be in your memories for always. There was always something to learn from every relationship..
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fatfamily02
replied on February 28th, 2006
Extremely eHealthy
tasha114 wrote:
i agree. Even though an ex is an ex,friends or not you should go. You still once had a relationship with this person,admired this person,shared things. I think that is a kind of special situation. It's still important because bad or not that person was a part of your life and will be in your memories for always. There was always something to learn from every relationship..
very well said--i agree--if I knew I would def. Go.
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w0rldd0minat0r
replied on March 1st, 2006
Experienced User
Sorry I dont know how to say this subtly I did try
you are hardly trying to get back with this guy your current partner should respect u paying your last respects
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Clambake
replied on March 3rd, 2006
New User
I would only go if you were on very, very good terms upon their death.
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Morning_Glory
replied on March 14th, 2006
Experienced User
I'd go regardless of how I was getting along with him at the time. He is the father of my child and i'd want to show respect to my son's feelings regardless of my feelings for his dad.
Not to mention I might just want to be sure the health questions is gone for good! Lol!
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w0rldd0minat0r
replied on March 21st, 2006
Experienced User
Lol bit harsh but made me giggle
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diamondsz
replied on March 21st, 2006
Extremely eHealthy
I would go if u were on good term with ex and his family if not dont go, here's my reasoning
his family is the ones who are grieving(parents) if you didnt get along they would get upset and in a way it is kinda of rude to be a party crasher at a funeral! If you were invited than go I dont know if its a traditional funeral (if u guys didnt get along but ur paying ur peace you sit on the left hand side in the back) there's actually etiquette for funerals wont go there!