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Q: In Love With My Ex For the Past 6 Years On And Off Again....

asked by: YoungMum20 on October 9th, 2005

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I started datin my ex shane when I was 15 and he was 16. We were together for 2 years. He would always call me when we werent together. He would tell me he loved me and everything!! I am 20 year's old now and I had his son on july 13,2005 (day after his b-day july 12th). Since I had christian we dont talk anymore because he says my son isnt his child!! Were goin threw alot and I really dont know why I still love him! I wish we could get married and just be a family! Everytime he had a new g/f he would cheat on them with me! He always came back to me!! I dont know what to do. We havent been a couple since I was 17 but we would always talk and tell eachother we loved eachother and we would always sleep together. I just dont know what to do. I want to be a family with him! What should I do to get him back??????

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SomeGuy333

replied on October 9th, 2005

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Sorry but this sounds more like he's cheating on you, not them. And if he doesn't believe its his child there are ways to prove it, its called dna testing.

And as for getting him back, sorry but I have no advice there.

YoungMum20

replied on October 9th, 2005

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We are gettin a dna test done actually this is the 2nd test were gettin done cuz he wont pay for the 1st so we can get the results. I think he knows my son is his child and he is just procrastinating to get things done. He is just makin things worse on him cuz I filed for child support and when I did that he requested for another one!! Were gettin the 2nd 1 done on october 12, 2005!! So when we get the results back showing that he is the father to my son he is just going to be screwed!! He told me when my son was born it was going to ruin his life!!!

kenya2006

replied on February 23rd, 2006

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I've just read your blog and i'm sorry to hear you're going through so much. I'm new to this but I thought i'd have to send you a reply. You're very young and you have time to find someone who will be there for you and your child. It sounds like the father of your child just isn't up to the job!! It sounds like he was never ready to have children and feels like his youth has been taken away from him, which is why he's still running around cheating on you with other girls. Now the child is born he has to step up to the plate, otherwise you may discover that you are not the only person who is the mother of his child. Harsh, but true, read my blog...I speak from experience.

Melissa_20

replied on February 24th, 2006

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I know this an old post but what happened with the whole dna thing?

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