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Q: I Have Problem And I Need Help..
asked by: Super Nova on October 6th, 2005
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I have a problem I am a 16 year old white male and I have a extremely strong attraction to hispanic females, even more so than white girls - and that is the problem. I view this in the same light as a gay/lesbian person might view their homosexuality (in a bad way of course).

I feel this attraction is unnatural and needs to be corrected. Does anyone have any advice.
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overlyworried
replied on October 8th, 2005
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This is not unnatural at all! A lot of people have a preference. My sister is white and she will date only hispanic males.

If you are attracted to hispanic females, then so be it. Nobody should accuse you of being "wrong" for liking what you like, especially yourself. I say more power to you and don't worry about it.

Besides, our nation is becoming more of a mixed based society anyway, and i, for one, think it's great! :-)
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Super Nova
replied on October 9th, 2005
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overlyworried wrote:
this is not unnatural at all! A lot of people have a preference. My sister is white and she will date only hispanic males.

If you are attracted to hispanic females, then so be it. Nobody should accuse you of being "wrong" for liking what you like, especially yourself. I say more power to you and don't worry about it.



Besides, our nation is becoming more of a mixed based society anyway, and i, for one, think it's great! :-)


maybe "unnatural" is the wrong word, however it does seem to be a little uncommon. All but one of my white friends do not find hispanic females at attractuve but when im talking to black guys it takes a 180 degree turn. I feel the way I do about my attractive because I believe it not normal.
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overlyworried
replied on October 9th, 2005
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Well, it may be a little bit uncommon in your area ... But there are a lot of places that have mixed couples. I'm a white female that is with a black man ... In texas, no less. We've had so many people that give us dirty looks ... And I eat it up. I like who i'm with and I could care less what other people think. You shouldn't worry about the color of someone but about what type of personality they have and how they make you feel.

Just because your friends do not find hispanic females attractive, it doesn't mean you have to. There are a lot of beautiful females out there ... Be it white, black, hispanic or other. It's perfectly normal for you to be interested in someone of a different race. You like what you like and I don't think you should worry yourself over it.
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GMO
replied on October 10th, 2005
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Well I too have a strong attraction to hispanic girls. I think it's just fine! I have never had one, nor do I know where or how to try to find one. But to me they are great looking woman. Being a white male myslef, the though of race has never crossed my mind! Just look at selma hyack! Wow!!
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overlyworried
replied on October 10th, 2005
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Lol, gmo! :-)

i agree, totally. You can't help who you're attracted to! And if you try to convince yourself not to be attracted to someone because it feels "unnatural or uncommon", then you're not being true to yourself.

Don't sweat the small stuff ... There's more important things in life to worry about :-) good luck!
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Justin_Toronto
replied on October 11th, 2005
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Of course it's natural.. Some of those hispanic girls are just down right gorgeous. :) ... Some of the best dating experiences i've had were with latina girls, or filipina girls even. Naturally toned and shapely bodies.

But... Physical attraction and emotional attraction are two different things. You need to find out who you're most emotionally compatible with, and go from there. If the multi-culturalism is not an open possibility in your mind, then why bother persuing it unless you're looking for a good time only.
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Super Nova
replied on October 11th, 2005
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justin_toronto wrote:
of course it's natural.. Some of those hispanic girls are just down right gorgeous. :) ... Some of the best dating experiences i've had were with latina girls, or filipina girls even. Naturally toned and shapely bodies.



But... Physical attraction and emotional attraction are two different things. You need to find out who you're most emotionally compatible with, and go from there. If the multi-culturalism is not an open possibility in your mind, then why bother persuing it unless you're looking for a good time only.


thanks, you are right they are gorgeous I always thought of their bodies as nothing less than a work of art. They have a culture I think is very rich the ones at my school like to draw alot and are very skilled at it. And as for calling my latinaphilia "unnatural" we could call pamela anderson fans "unnatural" because she is for the most part unnatural.
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