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blackprincess

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Signs of Lost Virginity
Posted: 10-06-05 09:44am

Hi:

last night my boyfriend and I were fooling around. Well I know I was a virgin before we start fooling around however on trying to enter me I felt some real pain so I pushed him off before her entered me however after I realized there was blood. So is that a sign that I have lost my viginity and is there a possibility that I am pregnant? I am scared.
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Tylanas

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Posted: 10-06-05 10:17am

I don't really think there is a chance you are pregnant because it doesn't sound like he ejaculated inside of you. Don't worry about that ;)

well, this is a hard case. It really depends on your personal opinon here, whether or not you count yourself as still virgin. I think I would, because you weren't fully penetrated. However the bleeding is probably due to your hymen (your "cherry") ripping, so if that's the only requirement you have for virginity, then you may consider it lost. But the thing is that many girls lose their "virginity" to things like tampons and rough sports which rip the hymen naturally.

Again, it's up to your judgement. I'd say you're still a virgin, really. I'm sure others on this board will have violent opinions otherwise, so just be ready for them.
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angel6932

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Posted: 10-06-05 10:27am

In my oppioniun I would say no you are not pg and no you are not a virgin but how ever if you didnt bleed then that is a good singn that you still are. In my belief I think anytime a man enters you are no longer a virgin. But that is just what I believe. So dont qote me on this..
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blackprincess

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Posted: 10-06-05 10:34am

Thanks I know that my hymen (cherry bleeding can be the cause of anything. He did not enter me due to the fact that there was some pain so I got scared and pushed him off. I was a little afraid that sperm getting near to my vagina could cause me to get pg. My period also finished the day before yesterday so I am wondering if it could be that it was still lying around and just came during that time
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angel6932

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Posted: 10-06-05 10:40am

Ok so sounds like to me you are still a virgin..
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nioosha

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Posted: 08-23-07 08:09am

I had a question
I was wondering does it bleed a lot or just a few drops?
please let me know
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popminer

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Posted: 08-23-07 08:23am

haha well it doesnt bleed like as much as a period does.

probably just a few drops.
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Tylanas

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Posted: 08-23-07 15:03pm

nioosha wrote:
I had a question
I was wondering does it bleed a lot or just a few drops?
please let me know


It depends on your hymen, whether it was broken before sex or not, (by things like bikes) whether or not the bleeding was caused by lack of lubrication or nails etc.

My hymen was just a thick string, and when it broke it actually bled a considerable amount!! All at once though, and I was in the shower with my bf. It was startling to see, and didn't really hurt for complicated reasons.

It spotted very lightly for about a day, maybe less, couple of hours really. The massive bleeding stopped right away.
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Georgia59

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Posted: 08-23-07 15:28pm

In my opinion- when when penis enters vagina, you have lost your virginity. It sounds like that's what you were trying to do- so you were trying to lose your virginity??

But right, whenever the penis enters the vagina, there is a risk for pregnancy. Get on birth control if you don't want that to happen.
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sarathetrooper

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Posted: 03-04-08 11:09am

my friend is not a virgin and she was being fingered by a guy and got a sharp pain and started bleeding a lot. shes really worried and we arent sure what it is
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mashie88

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Posted: 03-06-08 03:00am

hi, when i had it the first time, i dint bleed -- no blood no nothing.. any idea why? i dont do rough sports or anything.
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Tylanas

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Posted: 03-06-08 12:07pm

mashie88 wrote:
hi, when i had it the first time, i dint bleed -- no blood no nothing.. any idea why? i dont do rough sports or anything.

I didn't bleed either and didn't do rough sports either. I had a septate hymen, however.

A thick or thin hymen could break at different times. How about tampons? Those break hymens too.
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Tylanas

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Re: vaginal bleeding
Posted: 03-06-08 12:07pm

sarathetrooper wrote:
my friend is not a virgin and she was being fingered by a guy and got a sharp pain and started bleeding a lot. shes really worried and we arent sure what it is

Well it's either her hymen that was broken or he scratched her and the wound is bleeding.
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