Me and my boyfriend would have sex before I got on birth control and I was fine. Well a few month of being on birth control and I do not get that sexually excited anymore. As a matter of fact I now tear pretty bad during sex. The majority of the tearing happened when lubrication was not being used, but now I have to used lubrication due to the birth controls effects. I also have a heavy white discharge from the birth control, and I just got checked for std's because the side effects of birth control were scaring me, everything was negative. My gyno probably saw the tearing but said nothing. What can fix the tearing. Once I tear it does not close back up the tear is getting bigger and bigger. Is there any medicine or cream I can use to fix this. I tear from my vagina opening to my urethra. Somebody help me.