Hello everyone, i'm new here so none of
you have heard anything about me. Heres a
quick update, i'm 16 (17 in 18 days) and
my boyfriend joel is 18, I am 7 months
pregnant and I live with joel becuase my
parents abused me. But last week my dad
tried to get me to come home with him and
I refused he ended up punching me in the
face and I lost blance, and tripped over
my coffee table. I the back of my head
open and had to get stiches. I went to a
different doctor for the sitches and he
asked me how far along I was I told him
and he said I should get tested to see if
my baby is okay. So I did. The doctors
said my baby had been a little shaken and
I had landed on my stomach funny hitting
it a little bit. They think my baby might
end up being slow or being a still born
from this...
I have been looking forward to this baby
since I found out but since I will only be
17 when I have it i'm not sure if I can
raise a slow baby and go through
school......Help?
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Jordan H
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jun 2005 Posts: 74 Location: Calgary, AB, Canada
Posted: 10-05-05 12:52pm
Are you pressing charges against your
father?? If not you need too. As far as
having a "slow" baby, my only advise to
you is just take it day by day, talk more
to the doctors. At least you have your bf
by your side through this. I'm sorry, I
don't really know what else to say. Good
luck to you, have faith, things seem to
all work out in the end.
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vanessalouanne
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Joined: 31 May 2005 Posts: 2268 Location: ,
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Posted: 10-05-05 13:37pm
Please tell us you called the police or
cps on your father.. It is beyond me how
a man could ever touch a women, let alone
a pregnant women who is your daughter.
There are tests that can be done to make
sure your baby is going to be okay. Just
take it one day at a time because who
knows, the baby could be fine.
My biggest advice is to press charges
against your father. And pray for a safe
healthy baby.
I wish you luck.
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wife2jason_mom2ryley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2005 Posts: 288 Location: Amherst VA
Posted: 10-05-05 15:55pm
I think your baby will be just fine.
Pregnant women are very clumsy anyways and
lots of them fall flat on their tummy and
the baby is just fine. My best friend
(who was 8 months preggy by the way) was
getting out of her car to check the mail
(she cudn't reach the box from her car)
and when she did, she tripped and fell
right on her tummy!!! Of course she
paniced and went to the hospital. The
doctor told her that her baby was well
protected inside of the uterin wall and
that he would be fine. The doctor did
run some test just to ease her mind though
and the baby did turn out to be just fine.
It really takes alot to lose a bbay
with a fall. Unless you are falling
from a long distance or down some stairs
or something. Your father is an aweful
man it sounds like and you should have him
locked up for the rest of his life.
Your baby will be okay...Good luck to you
and your bf!!!
Teresa
white
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fatfamily02
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Jul 2005 Posts: 3050 Location: Georgia, USA
Posted: 10-05-05 16:43pm
I really believe your baby is fine.
Did they do any tests or just assumed cuz
you feel that something could be wrong??
Im sure its okay.
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Letmesaveyou
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2005 Posts: 4 Location: Winnipeg
Posted: 10-05-05 21:58pm
They tested and assumed becuase I was
getting very bad stomach aches after the
fall. Anyways I got the test results back
and they say the baby will be fine!! :d
as for my father we are going to pres
charges tomorrow after I get out of
school. Hopefully he will never bother me
or my slowly growing family again
